If you reading this, no I'm not apologizing for anything. But I do wonder now and days, people seem to not accept it as a sincere apology for mistakes people made. Seem more like is easily dismissed and people either want one of 3 things.
When I was younger, I was taught that when you make mistakes you apologize to people to show sincerity that you didn't mean it. I can see someone is upset and I know that it would have been easier to just not do it. But let's forget about the first option. We know that it trumps all but we as people do make mistakes and is normal.
Why can't some people accept sorry as a honest mistake realized and that you take responsibility for it and move on? Is always that someone has to pay for that. I can see if it depends on the situation, broke a item in the store, yes someone should pay for that, but maybe keep it a domestic case. Like something with your friend or what not. Do you ever say sorry to people when you make mistakes in relationships and I mean any kind? Do people ever tell you sorry? How do you usually handle that?
I'm beginning to think that I was taught something that slowly became useless over time. I find it almost impossible to believe that people have not made mistakes in life, everyone has at least once.
- You shouldn't have done what you did
- Do something to fix it
- Suffer with guilt.
When I was younger, I was taught that when you make mistakes you apologize to people to show sincerity that you didn't mean it. I can see someone is upset and I know that it would have been easier to just not do it. But let's forget about the first option. We know that it trumps all but we as people do make mistakes and is normal.
Why can't some people accept sorry as a honest mistake realized and that you take responsibility for it and move on? Is always that someone has to pay for that. I can see if it depends on the situation, broke a item in the store, yes someone should pay for that, but maybe keep it a domestic case. Like something with your friend or what not. Do you ever say sorry to people when you make mistakes in relationships and I mean any kind? Do people ever tell you sorry? How do you usually handle that?
I'm beginning to think that I was taught something that slowly became useless over time. I find it almost impossible to believe that people have not made mistakes in life, everyone has at least once.
