Why can't we all love each other?

Normal people behave normally with others. There can be disagreements, but that doesn't mean we hate each other. People who are dicks to others by default probably have/had problems in their childhood or at home. You won't find many people of the latter category here, though. This is a community. Even if they come here for trolling, they'll be gone quickly, either by getting bored or getting banned.

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P.S the orgy is optional

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Religious texts also encourage a lot of messed up stuff, which is definitely not to love your neighbor.
Truth is that's it's (near) impossible to get along with everyone, and you shouldn't expect everyone to get along with you either.

Being divided isn't necessarily a bad thing either.


Also, orgy isn't my thing, seems like the place would be a smelly mess at some point.

No I agree that disagreements are ok but you can disagree and still love the person. There just seems to be a dangerous amount of hate in the world nowadays. I don't think you should hate someone because you disagree with them.

P.S that is why I have a self cleaning orgy room

@smileyhead At school usually people that get bullied have problems themselves too. Usually bullies target people that have low self-esteem and poor social skills. Bullies don't target people that have good esteem and will fight back and kick the bullies ass.

And bullies act out because they themselves also have poor social skills and low self-esteem. The bullies and bullied are essentially the same in vulnerabilities. But these vulnerabilities manifests in different ways.

That is at least partially true. Bullying can be a vicious cycle.

I would say that that is a case where greater understanding could help.

What needs to be taught in school is communication. Which there is no classes solely based on this. Problem is bullies have poor communication so they can't properly articulate their points, which ends up leading to there thoughts not heard. So they resort to violence to be noticed.

Many times when you can't express yourself correctly, and say something in the wrong way, people will get mad at you. And you end up getting labeled as a bad person. This is big cause of anger because people don't want to be seen as bad. So they resort to anger because they don't know how to express themselves in a better way. When you can properly articulate yourself then it leads to better understanding and anger subsides. It's people not being understood that leads to anger.

Proper communication is essential for everyday lives but its not a big focus in school.

Communication is key for understanding.
It's pretty sad that it's hardly properly taught.

I agree wholeheartedly.

Communication is also compromised in a lot of ways nowadays.

Tolerance is fine up until the point where you're tolerating intolerance just to avoid conflict. Leadership in the US and elsewhere is divisive, so it's not surprising that we're so divided.

@kingfrost Communication is probably a huge role in the point you brought up in high divorces. And couples not getting along. Poor communication.

For one example, couples arguing over parenting styles. They get into a disagreement and all of a sudden think they are not compatible with each other. Without realizing that differences that mother and fathers bring in parenting styles (with lots of evidence to support) are essential for kids.

Usually its one person taking one side, thinking their way is better, and saying i'm the only one actually trying to be a parent. 1 person articulating clearly why their way of parenting is better, and the other can't properly explain why their way of parenting is beneficial, which then has their parter believe they are not even trying at all to be a good parent. But in reality they are a good parent but can't explain properly why their way of doing something is also beneficial. And why both are needed.

They don't realize that the tension between them is what brings balance so that one parenting isn't dominated over the other, which in the end creates a balanced kid instead of a 1 sided approach. And lack of communicating this properly leads to anger and trouble in relationships. So communication is very essential to avoid conflict and being divided.

Global orgy.

Lack of values. You can blame everything else, but if you lack the values to support someone else in need, there´s nothing else to do.

You can´t ask for love when there is not values. If you have no values for the others, then you will always resort to external tools to justify your life, and your behaviour.

That´s why I am very selective social-wise IRL (had to learn the hard way) but also if there´s someone else in need (and they actually have earnt the right), then sure. I am all for support.

But we are divided and orgy is bad. If we want to join together let's study and contemplate history of Zoroastrianism.

Sure, but value is such a generic word. I can completly understand making people earn it though. Sadly lots of people in this world will take advantage of you if you let them.

I learned that the hard way too.

Orgy sounds good.
Please provide the self-cleaning orgy room and let's organize an all inclusive gbatemp orgy!

Honestly the problem with the world today is that no one drinks their wine out of the skulls of their enemies anymore.

Perhaps they realized it doesn't make a good cup, you know, all the wine drops out through the nasal and ocular orifices.

I miss the old days when you wore a dear skull on your head and danced around a fire to summon Baphomet and then you had the orgy under the full moon.

Nowadays kids just wanna play video games.

this is the internet but I think values are not generic, but simple. You can´t expect everyone to get along or agree because everyone is so different. Still, people doesn´t realize values aren´t toys. But tools to make your ways through "society". Except, you aren´t abusing or exploiting society in the process. Instead, say, manipulation.

So I used to believe we can all get along each other, but ignorance is bliss. Know enough your surroudings.

Humans are disgusting monsters. Nothing can change that.