Maybe he don't love me....

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PART 1: https://gbatemp.net/entry/i-kiss-my-best-friend.11497/

Yesterday i met again my best friend....
We were shooting for the city playing Pokemon Go.
I had no time because it was almost dinner time so we were walking around very fast. When I come home I asked him:
"Did you like the Kiss as last time?" He held up his shoulders and said "I don't know"
I said "Oh okay" ...and I said "Okay see ya!"
I don't know if he don't love me or he don't want any love stories in general...
Because he say to me 2 months ago "I don't like the love... and i don't want to have any love stories..."

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You know... its really frustrating to see someone not responding to yoir love.....
I honestly feel broken (And im not the one going through this)
 
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@Darkyose

maybe a little friend of him/her suddenly found himself dat he loves female potatoes, and Marty is aaaaa gaaaay thogh.... or VICEVERSA
 
You only kissed him few days ago, did you think maybe giving more time or consider his feelings? Can't expect to rush things. You watch anime, people just don't hook up right away after making advances like that. Is just spontaneous, tell him take some time to think about it, let him know how long he has and that your not gonna wait forever if you don't get a respons about it.
 
Love and friendship come and go in this life. But luckily, there is a thin line between them. Regardless of if you date each other or not, your friendship is a bond that links you together. Your memories together are proof of a love, might not be the kinda love you want, but there is love there.

And, even if he doesn't feel the same way now, he might down the road. Just like you might move on sometime down the road. Feelings change over time. I've been engaged twice and over time, we realized the love we had wasn't quite there. At the same time, I've had friends for years and one day realized had feelings for them. Who we are now generally isn't who we will be down road.

Everyone needs different amounts of time to think and process their feelings. Maybe hes still trying to gauge his own feelings. I would say just give it time but don't wait around either. There are other people out there, even though right now you only have eyes for one.

I hope my essay made some sense. And wasn't too stupid. :3
 
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@Sonic Angel Knight

She already made a decision to stay friend with him rather than push him. He already said that he was not interested.
 
Everything needs to build from the ground, brick after brick...
Do not give up so quickly, best thing to do is keep trying if you really like him or as people say: there are lots of fishes in the ocean :)
PS: Give both of you time, nothing can be done in ONE DAY OR FEW!
 
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Can't say I have ever been a teenage girl, much less one in the 2010s. I was however a teenage boy once, can't particularly suggest doing it over being a 20 something but I do remember it.
During such a time there was a definite push to "play it cool", regardless of what you actually feel, and situations like the one in the OP are a prime candidate for such a line of thought. In some cases the mindset persists for many years after
*makes finger guns in mirror*.

I am not sure I have an particularly useful advice here*, just mainly wanted to offer a differing opinion to some of those I saw posted.

*statistically speaking it will amount to nothing, at the same time I can certainly recognise that it is presently perceived as a rather important event in your life/recent history.
 
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