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i think that it's not that you're not important to her, but she's in the Philippines, idk if you know but people here text a lot. i remember when i was younger and i still have a cellphone, 500 msgs a day is just normal. when i wake up in the morning until late at night.

[quote name='game01' post='3332238' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:47 PM']i think that it's not that you're not important to her, but she's in the Philippines, idk if you know but people here text a lot. i remember when i was younger and i still have a cellphone, 500 msgs a day is just normal. when i wake up in the morning until late at night.[/quote]

Yeah I know that, But see, She cant really have load/credit every time, so I think that she, using it for her friends is really irritating.

But, yeah, maybe its just me being a dick, I guess.

well, try call her.
also, i think girls prefer friends than boyfriend (my friend told me)

[quote name='jan777' post='3332241' date='Dec 17 2010, 02:50 AM'][quote name='game01' post='3332238' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:47 PM']i think that it's not that you're not important to her, but she's in the Philippines, idk if you know but people here text a lot. i remember when i was younger and i still have a cellphone, 500 msgs a day is just normal. when i wake up in the morning until late at night.[/quote]

Yeah I know that, But see, She cant really have load/credit every time, so I think that she, using it for her friends is really irritating.

But, yeah, maybe its just me being a dick, I guess.
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Internet can and will solve those problems via aim, or msn, or some other shit messenger. That way when she isn't at the computer she could text you then. Honestly that was a silly move on your part. What do you expect her to do, horde all her text credits just for you? No, you are both young, and both in need of friends. It doesn't mean she loves you less because of it. No, it just means she is a human with attention needs. Beside talking to the same damn people everyday would be annoying.

[quote name='azure0wind' post='3332245' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:54 PM']well, try call her.
also, i think girls prefer friends than boyfriend (my friend told me)[/quote]

I did, Thats how we made up for a day.
then the next day I called her again, and thats how I started going apeshit over her, texting her friends.

Yeah, I guess they do. It sucks. :/ whats the point of being a boyfriend? I feel downgraded.


[quote name='Argentum Vir' post='3332247' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:56 PM'][quote name='jan777' post='3332241' date='Dec 17 2010, 02:50 AM'][quote name='game01' post='3332238' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:47 PM']i think that it's not that you're not important to her, but she's in the Philippines, idk if you know but people here text a lot. i remember when i was younger and i still have a cellphone, 500 msgs a day is just normal. when i wake up in the morning until late at night.[/quote]

Yeah I know that, But see, She cant really have load/credit every time, so I think that she, using it for her friends is really irritating.

But, yeah, maybe its just me being a dick, I guess.
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Internet can and will solve those problems via aim, or msn, or some other shit messenger. That way when she isn't at the computer she could text you then. Honestly that was a silly move on your part. What do you expect her to do, horde all her text credits just for you? No, you are both young, and both in need of friends. It doesn't mean she loves you less because of it. No, it just means she is a human with attention needs. Beside talking to the same damn people everyday would be annoying.
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Problem is, she also does not have internet.
Yeah, you have a point.
but like you said, " talking to the same damn people everyday would be annoying."
Isnt it enough for her to see them and talk to them personally every single day?
We can only talk properly about, 2x a week. And lots of times it gets interrupted because she ran out of credits. see what I mean now?


Also, I guess I have t explain the "reasons"
well, her parents doesnt want her to have a boyfriend yet. So they dont know about us.
But I told her,
hey, its fucking long distance, how hard can it be to hide?
Apparently, her parents are very suspicious. And brutal.
They tend to hurt her when she goes flirty or something.
So yeah,
Her parents are the ones buying her credits.
When she goes on the internet, most of time, her mom or brother is watching over her.
So its really fucked.

[quote name='jan777' post='3332241' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:50 PM'][quote name='game01' post='3332238' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:47 PM']i think that it's not that you're not important to her, but she's in the Philippines, idk if you know but people here text a lot. i remember when i was younger and i still have a cellphone, 500 msgs a day is just normal. when i wake up in the morning until late at night.[/quote]

Yeah I know that, But see, She cant really have load/credit every time, so I think that she, using it for her friends is really irritating.

But, yeah, maybe its just me being a dick, I guess.
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i think she chose her friends because she can text more than international messages.

call her again :3. made up with her. ask what is she doing, etc. well, try.

[quote name='Argentum Vir' post='3332247' date='Dec 17 2010, 02:56 AM']Internet can and will solve those problems via aim, or msn, or some other shit messenger. That way when she isn't at the computer she could text you then. Honestly that was a silly move on your part. What do you expect her to do, horde all her text credits just for you? No, you are both young, and both in need of friends. It doesn't mean she loves you less because of it. No, it just means she is a human with attention needs. Beside talking to the same damn people everyday would be annoying.[/quote]

This. Expecting to be the only one she texts is a bit selfish. :/ If I had a boyfriend that went nutso on me every time I wanted to talk to / text my friends instead of him, I can assure you he wouldn't be around for very long. Although I can understand how you might feel, you seem to be acting a bit too possessive of her.

[quote name='game01' post='3332251' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:58 PM'][quote name='jan777' post='3332241' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:50 PM'][quote name='game01' post='3332238' date='Dec 17 2010, 04:47 PM']i think that it's not that you're not important to her, but she's in the Philippines, idk if you know but people here text a lot. i remember when i was younger and i still have a cellphone, 500 msgs a day is just normal. when i wake up in the morning until late at night.[/quote]

Yeah I know that, But see, She cant really have load/credit every time, so I think that she, using it for her friends is really irritating.

But, yeah, maybe its just me being a dick, I guess.
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i think she chose her friends because she can text more than international messages.
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Nah, Its the same rate as when texting locally. Cause I brought a Globe roaming phone here, so yeah. Its actually me thats paying more to text her.


[quote name='azure0wind' post='3332255' date='Dec 17 2010, 05:01 PM']call her again :3. made up with her. ask what is she doing, etc. well, try.[/quote]

I know she wont pick up.
Ill have to mae up in text first then I ll call her.

[quote name='Stephapanda' post='3332261' date='Dec 17 2010, 05:07 PM']This. Expecting to be the only one she texts is a bit selfish. :/ If I had a boyfriend that went nutso on me every time I wanted to talk to / text my friends instead of him, I can assure you he wouldn't be around for very long. Although I can understand how you might feel, you seem to be acting a bit too possessive of her.[/quote]

Yeah, I guess im too possessive.
Dont get me wrong though, If we're not in a long distance relationship, I wont give a fuck if she texts her friends. unless its some guy who's trying to make a move on her.
Its just that, Its our main form of communication, And it hurts me that she wastes it on people whom she can talk to everyday anyway.

Don't you guys have am equivalent for of say an internet cafe with free/slight charge internet? Seriously though, you're being a little harsh. Also if what you're saying is true, another reason why she isn't replying is that she is out of credits. Find another form of communication, if only to supplement the existing one. Also ask her to keep a certain amount of credits to text you. She'll agree as long as it's reasonable.

[quote name='Argentum Vir' post='3332288' date='Dec 17 2010, 05:24 PM']Don't you guys have am equivalent for of say an internet cafe with free/slight charge internet? Seriously though, you're being a little harsh. Also if what you're saying is true, another reason why she isn't replying is that she is out of credits. Find another form of communication, if only to supplement the existing one. Also ask her to keep a certain amount of credits to text you. She'll agree as long as it's reasonable.[/quote]

Yeah we do, but she doesnt go there. for fear of being caught by her parents.
Yeah, thats why Im mad that she texted her friends.
I tried that one, and I was being reasonable with her, she agrees, but doesnt do it anyway.
I dont know what to do anymore.

Anyway, thanks for the convo guys.
I think Im going crash for the night. Ill just sleep this off for now.

[quote name='jan777' post='3332305' date='Dec 17 2010, 03:35 AM'][quote name='Argentum Vir' post='3332288' date='Dec 17 2010, 05:24 PM']Don't you guys have am equivalent for of say an internet cafe with free/slight charge internet? Seriously though, you're being a little harsh. Also if what you're saying is true, another reason why she isn't replying is that she is out of credits. Find another form of communication, if only to supplement the existing one. Also ask her to keep a certain amount of credits to text you. She'll agree as long as it's reasonable.[/quote]

Yeah we do, but she doesnt go there. for fear of being caught by her parents.
Yeah, thats why Im mad that she texted her friends.
I tried that one, and I was being reasonable with her, she agrees, but doesnt do it anyway.
I dont know what to do anymore.

Anyway, thanks for the convo guys.
I think Im going crash for the night. Ill just sleep this off for now.
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Well, the morning comes quickly, and refreshingly. Like I said, you're being too harsh on her. When she gets back to you, just voice your concerns to her. Any reasonable relationship should have communication, and any reasonable Long Distance Relationship should have 2 or more ways to further this relationship just in-case one or two fail.