What if it's a textbook about picking up girls?
If it's one thing i can't stand is a cheater. You'd think they would at least have enough respect for the person to break up with them first before doing something like that. That's why so many people have trust issues.
I'm not saying gay men are more likely to get laid by women, I'm saying women are more likely to be attracted to gay men. Gay men are usually more confident, outgoing, hygienic, etc. So my point is, men aren't choosing to be gay because they can't get laid, doing so would help them get girls which is a black hole of logic.@WeedZ I am not putting an entire bias on women,just pointing out that with social media the odds are stacked against mediocre men.As far as your comment about the "typical" gay having a better chance,I mean that is just foolish to even say that. Not to mention the fact that you are stereotyping homosexuals to be more attractive which in my experience is false.20% of men do sleep with 80% of women. In high school in America the high school QB sometimes has lay counts in the 30+ area,while 50% of males that are 18 are virgins. Animal kingdom works the same way with the alpha monkeys,the alpha monkey gets multiple females while the crap monkeys get scraps.
Look what a bisexual had to say on reddit about dating men vs women.
https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeau...r_experiments_guys_unless_you_are_really_hot/
You can google tinder/okc experiments. They have used overweight woman,women with children,MtF transgenders and the result is always the same. Men will take whatever is available. Does it really seem that hard to believe some men would subconsciously turn to LGBTQ for acceptance? It's much easier to find casual sex using grindr than tinder for example. I am not saying I know it to be 100% true but it is just something that I started to ponder on. No one actually knows for a fact that people are born gay,however with the current social climate it shouldn't surprise you that people either look for alternative sexual lifestyles,or they just drop out of society all together. Why do you think so many men take refuge in video games?I honestly do not think it matters whether someone is born gay or not as far as gay rights go by the way. You would be surprised about how many men suffer in complete loneliness, I've met some good looking men that are in their 20s and virgins,while there are some of the most ugly women that have 50+ lay counts. Men are being disenfranchised and the current social climate is a result of it. Why do you think Trump won the election in USA?
People are fed up with political correctness taking over while societal institutions are collapsing. Look at how many people here think they are "enlightened" about life because they hold mainstream views,people on temp really believe they are super accepting because they are okay with homosexuality when in reality that is the mainstream opinion. It isn't mainstream to be against gays yet on here people feel like they are some type of revolutionary standing up for the smaller man. People that believe whatever the mainstream says (CNN,Disney,Hollywood) are really not these abstract minded intellectuals that see things from a new point of view. Mainstream view on this particular subject is that any man can find a good wife,while the reality is that with our degenerate society it is difficult task to find a quality wife.
All of this only adds to the fact that the mainstream media/public education system are breeding weak men that are not fit to survive today's cruel capitalistic world. America is a dog eat dog society where only strongest survive the crucible. Everything CNN/holywood promotes,I immediately assume it to be propaganda until proven otherwise.
I know. It's infuriating and makes you give up on humanity even more when you meet those people. No decency to end a relationship properly and then move on to another, they are too selfish so they always want to have a partner just so they won't be alone, meaning that even if they have someone perfect that loves them, they can't really feel love, just temporary attraction at best and as soon as that's over they are looking for a replacement without being alone at any point, thinking that as long as they have anyone it's fine, no matter how little love or emotion is in it...
This is true. After all, it's mainly fickle women that are most sexually active and they end up with MANY partners each! It's not like people can only have sex once in their lives or something, there are a lot of women who have restraint and don't have sex until they are in their thirties, just like men, or that "save" themselves for one person. It's not even that rare to be honest, young girls having sex all the time and all over the place almost exclusively happens in US and Australia where you can find schools with only pregnant teens or kids having sex around the courtyards. As for adults, depending on their age and maturity, they can either be the kind that does one-night-stands and can't feel a thing about a real relationship or they can just find someone and stick with them, which is often true for women. Women tend to cheat when they are young and think they deserve to have everything handed to them just because they are a bit pretty, while men cheat later when they've gotten older and have realized putting up with their woman's middle-age moodswings is a bitch and a half... But yeah, the statistic about 20% men and 80% women or whatever doesn't account for all the stupid and idiotic cheaters out there.
It would be if the value of the currency here remained consistent. But it doesnt. If the top is "handsome", then what about less attractive chicks? Those exist too. There isn't a trickle down economics because we're not talking about a set currency. We're talking about individuals. We're also talking about getting laid, which honestly, if you haven't been laid in 30+ years, that's your fault. (Not you specifically, the metaphorical 'you').
I read this the other day and it stayed at the back of my mind. What makes the difference between a male friend who has the potential to become a boyfriend and a male friend who is eternally in the friend zone?
I would have to guess that the one that potentially ends up as a boyfriend is someone dependable, so when you have a problem you know he'll help you out, and one who doesn't hesitate to take some risks or the initiative, like asking the girl out, rather than staying passive...
I'm purely speaking from hypotheticals, as I've only ever dated one person, thus its all personal taste that would differ from person to person, but the line is basically drawn, I'd say, at how close the friendship is and the dynamic of the friendship. Within the male friend-group I have, I could easily say that I'm great friends with a given person, but that I'd also just not be able to picture myself in a relationship with said person due to...just how we match up, I suppose.
Personality + common interests + dependability + attraction, I'd say, are a mix of what most women would look for in a guy.
I think only the attraction is making a difference.
What a beautiful post. I love when people step out of the comfort zone in a conversation to get some truth out, no matter how controversial it is. You are awesome!@WeedZ I am not putting an entire bias on women,just pointing out that with social media the odds are stacked against mediocre men.As far as your comment about the "typical" gay having a better chance,I mean that is just foolish to even say that. Not to mention the fact that you are stereotyping homosexuals to be more attractive which in my experience is false.20% of men do sleep with 80% of women. In high school in America the high school QB sometimes has lay counts in the 30+ area,while 50% of males that are 18 are virgins. Animal kingdom works the same way with the alpha monkeys,the alpha monkey gets multiple females while the crap monkeys get scraps.
Look what a bisexual had to say on reddit about dating men vs women.
https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeau...r_experiments_guys_unless_you_are_really_hot/
You can google tinder/okc experiments. They have used overweight woman,women with children,MtF transgenders and the result is always the same. Men will take whatever is available. Does it really seem that hard to believe some men would subconsciously turn to LGBTQ for acceptance? It's much easier to find casual sex using grindr than tinder for example. I am not saying I know it to be 100% true but it is just something that I started to ponder on. No one actually knows for a fact that people are born gay,however with the current social climate it shouldn't surprise you that people either look for alternative sexual lifestyles,or they just drop out of society all together. Why do you think so many men take refuge in video games?I honestly do not think it matters whether someone is born gay or not as far as gay rights go by the way. You would be surprised about how many men suffer in complete loneliness, I've met some good looking men that are in their 20s and virgins,while there are some of the most ugly women that have 50+ lay counts. Men are being disenfranchised and the current social climate is a result of it. Why do you think Trump won the election in USA?
People are fed up with political correctness taking over while societal institutions are collapsing. Look at how many people here think they are "enlightened" about life because they hold mainstream views,people on temp really believe they are super accepting because they are okay with homosexuality when in reality that is the mainstream opinion. It isn't mainstream to be against gays yet on here people feel like they are some type of revolutionary standing up for the smaller man. People that believe whatever the mainstream says (CNN,Disney,Hollywood) are really not these abstract minded intellectuals that see things from a new point of view. Mainstream view on this particular subject is that any man can find a good wife,while the reality is that with our degenerate society it is difficult task to find a quality wife.
All of this only adds to the fact that the mainstream media/public education system are breeding weak men that are not fit to survive today's cruel capitalistic world. America is a dog eat dog society where only strongest survive the crucible. Everything CNN/holywood promotes,I immediately assume it to be propaganda until proven otherwise.
Can you point out the profound truth, cause I seem to be missing it?
I said gay men are typically more confident outgoing and hygienic. Which women find attractive.
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I was gonna say that. lol