How do you talk to a girl?

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It's going to be a long road if you are having these types of problems to be honest. Getting laid is based on social status and who you know/how others see you. Why do you think so many men turn to alternative sexual lifestyles? Literally 80% of women have sex with 20% of men. You need to emotionally embrace that it's going to be a long ride.
 

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iterally 80% of women have sex with 20% of men. You need to emotionally embrace that it's going to be a long ride.

lol, those are really specific numbers.
From my observations of looking out my window, I came to the conclusion that a far higher number of males get laid.
Lots of families and screaming kids.
 
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It's going to be a long road if you are having these types of problems to be honest. Getting laid is based on social status and who you know/how others see you. Why do you think so many men turn to alternative sexual lifestyles? Literally 80% of women have sex with 20% of men. You need to emotionally embrace that it's going to be a long ride.
Well, none of that was correct
 

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the guy/boy/kid just want to know
how to talk with girls because he don't know how to start a talk
i can't help with that, here just say "hi" to a girl already makes her think bad things about you lol
 

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you shouldn't be talking to girls in hope for a girlfriend. Talk to them like a normal person. like I can't really explain it but you shouldn't be constantly searching for a girlfriend to say that you have one like if that's your goal then you need to change your priorities. Live content on your own without constantly searching for someone to stick your dick in. You'll eventually meet someone and love them
 

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you shouldn't be talking to girls in hope for a girlfriend. Talk to them like a normal person. like I can't really explain it but you shouldn't be constantly searching for a girlfriend to say that you have one like if that's your goal then you need to change your priorities. Live content on your own without constantly searching for someone to stick your dick in. You'll eventually meet someone and love them
you start sound like cuck. it complets depends on situaterate. i mean if you find girl who you want the girlfriends for then not onil shoulds you talks in hope of gf but with intents of otherwise you are gona coms of as the true betas!! woman wants the alphas (with more exploits :D)
 

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you start sound like cuck. it complets depends on situaterate. i mean if you find girl who you want the girlfriends for then not onil shoulds you talks in hope of gf but with intents of otherwise you are gona coms of as the true betas!! woman wants the alphas (with more exploits :D)

you kinda have to find a middle ground of being able to talk to girls without wanting every one of them to be your girlfriend right there but still being brave and assertive when you need to I guess I can't really put these thoughts into words
 

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you shouldn't be talking to girls in hope for a girlfriend. Talk to them like a normal person. like I can't really explain it but you shouldn't be constantly searching for a girlfriend to say that you have one like if that's your goal then you need to change your priorities. Live content on your own without constantly searching for someone to stick your dick in. You'll eventually meet someone and love them
Agree, when I talk to guys I can usually tell the difference between those only interested in talking to me because I'm female (the creepy ones) and those who I'm having a friendly interaction with because we are fellow human beings experiencing something similar (the normal ones). Relationships happen *after* you get to know someone and find you like them, not just because two random strangers happen to be wanting a relationship at the same time and bump into each other

Tl;Dr talk to girls like they are regular human beings and make friends. You won't come off as a creep that way.
 

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you kinda have to find a middle ground of being able to talk to girls without wanting every one of them to be your girlfriend right there but still being brave and assertive when you need to I guess I can't really put these thoughts into words
I find it funny that Xathya of all people is calling you a cuck and a beta.
 
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Agree, when I talk to guys I can usually tell the difference between those only interested in talking to me because I'm female (the creepy ones) and those who I'm having a friendly interaction with because we are fellow human beings experiencing something similar (the normal ones). Relationships happen *after* you get to know someone and find you like them, not just because two random strangers happen to be wanting a relationship at the same time and bump into each other

Tl;Dr talk to girls like they are regular human beings and make friends. You won't come off as a creep that way.
While what you said it's true, you can't deny the fact that it's situational. I've often ended up being friends with females I approached just because they were females (not really in sexual ways, just to add diversity to my friend roster because sausagefests are bad:P). Over time though, I ended up dating some of them, so if you want to have an actual relationship over a one-night STD exchange, you gotta be patient and get to know the other person.
 
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While what you said it's true, you can't deny the fact that it's situational. I've often ended up being friends with females I approached just because they were females (not really in sexual ways, just to add diversity to my friend roster because sausagefests are bad:P). Over time though, I ended up dating some of them, so if you want to have an actual relationship over a one-night STD exchange, you gotta be patient and get to know the other person.
You probably approached them in a friendly way with class - you didn’t just ask them out (or make conversation for a while, maybe a few days to pretend to be friendly, then ask them out) and then ignore them forever if they said no
 

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You probably approached them in a friendly way with class - you didn’t just ask them out (or make conversation for a while, maybe a few days to pretend to be friendly, then ask them out) and then ignore them forever if they said no
I actually treat women VERY differently compared to men. I coudln't give two shits about how to treat males. Women however, as long as they are being sweet/respectful, I'll treat them nicely, talk to them a lot, offer help or support if they have problems and they aren't complete strangers and so on. Don't know how I would treat one that turned me down as I've never been turned down in my life, but knowing me, I assume we would grow apart somewhat, as I wait until the opportune moment if I find someone I like, even if it takes months until I'm sure I can win her over. But yeah, in general, if I'm acquaintances or friends with females who have decency and self-respect (meaning no sluts or those people), I'll treat them as a man is supposed to treat them. Call me sexist, but I take pride in that, men should treat women well.
 
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Agree, when I talk to guys I can usually tell the difference between those only interested in talking to me because I'm female (the creepy ones) and those who I'm having a friendly interaction with because we are fellow human beings experiencing something similar (the normal ones). Relationships happen *after* you get to know someone and find you like them, not just because two random strangers happen to be wanting a relationship at the same time and bump into each other

Tl;Dr talk to girls like they are regular human beings and make friends. You won't come off as a creep that way.
I many times talks to girls because they are girls. I always try to surround myself around girls as much as I can. When i'm in class I try to form groups with mostly girls. I love girls. And its a lot of fun making them laugh. And I love it when they get nervous around you.
 
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Clearly it took a lot of balls for you to ask this question, so no, I'm not going to be condescending or rude...

Imagine them as if they're just your friends but also be flirty... (The friend thing is more for your comfortability and to help you get going.) I've got a very sarcastic and joke-y sense of humor, and I'm often getting girls' numbers, usually daily... I assume due to that and my looks... but here's the kicker with that... you don't have to be the most stunning man out there, either. An acquaintance I know married a super uggo dude, because he's got a fantastic personality. Sure there has to be the physical and the emotional attraction there, but the personality can become amplified and make you look even physically more attractive. Biology. Just have fun. Pretend they're your friend. Tease them, joke with them. It's unfortunately not something I can tell you via a forum, but just keep practicing! Most of all, be kind and be confident. Don't be cocky, don't be an asshole. Be kind, but don't be creepy. Be passionate about something (preferably a career or helping people or volunteering or something of that nature... Not something like "video games" or "anime". That'll just make them think you're weird.)

You got this! I'm sorry but I don't think a forum will help much. Especially one... like... this...

Try looking it up on youtube or something; They've got a tutorial for everything, I'm sure.
 
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Clearly it took a lot of balls for you to ask this question, so no, I'm not going to be condescending or rude...

Imagine them as if they're just your friends but also be flirty... (The friend thing is more for your comfortability and to help you get going.) I've got a very sarcastic and joke-y sense of humor, and I'm often getting girls' numbers, usually daily... I assume due to that and my looks... but here's the kicker with that... you don't have to be the most stunning man out there, either. An acquaintance I know married a super uggo dude, because he's got a fantastic personality. Sure there has to be the physical and the emotional attraction there, but the personality can become amplified and make you look even physically more attractive. Biology. Just have fun. Pretend they're your friend. Tease them, joke with them. It's unfortunately not something I can tell you via a forum, but just keep practicing! Most of all, be kind and be confident. Don't be cocky, don't be an asshole. Be kind, but don't be creepy. Be passionate about something (preferably a career or helping people or volunteering or something of that nature... Not something like "video games" or "anime". That'll just make them think you're weird.)

You got this! I'm sorry but I don't think a forum will help much. Especially one... like... this...

Try looking it up on youtube or something; They've got a tutorial for everything, I'm sure.
Youtube tutorials on dating tips are lame.
 
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Agree, when I talk to guys I can usually tell the difference between those only interested in talking to me because I'm female (the creepy ones) and those who I'm having a friendly interaction with because we are fellow human beings experiencing something similar (the normal ones). Relationships happen *after* you get to know someone and find you like them, not just because two random strangers happen to be wanting a relationship at the same time and bump into each other

Tl;Dr talk to girls like they are regular human beings and make friends. You won't come off as a creep that way.
But here's the thing. Are the fellow humans the ones that get you twirling your hair and biting your lip while they talk to you? There's a way to approach women, because they're women, just to flirt.
 
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