first of all sorry for my slow and long response...
i do like the system that worked for me: coaching.
a member who had low level psychology degree, teached me to write down the stuff in my head that blocked me from functioning as other people around me, she then rewrote it in what she beleved to be my meaning. then we discussed it.
so now i can understand better what is the basic failure of my brain (in my case i don't understand emotions of others, or see non verbal communications). now by asking a little more questions i can function in most situations quite normal.
it will never really change some problems though, for sports like basketball i still have problems i can't overcome., but it is enough to function in society.
one other thing that's different is i need really detailed schedules for the next todo or i get into panicmode, so i use a week and day aganda to write evereything down.
no drug or medicine will ever work better than this, and they found out about a year ago a possible cause, where normal people make now connections and old connections fade a way by autistic people they don't fade away, there's just more and more.
this is why i couldn't stand teachers who used to use sub structures for equations i mean they tell me different ways to solve the same equation wich made it more problematic to oversee the basis of the question.
if a teacher thinks in solutions i can learn about anything, but if a teacher is trying to get me to his or her point of view we get nowhere.
for extreme situations this will not help much, but for most people there's nothing better than this, they can fit in society just fine.
for really autistic people not being able to have normal emotions or conversations... there's still the hope we find a medicine to stabile at least the fear response...