sorry but this was long, I did read it all though, and I found your life very
interesting and strange, because my best friend is just like you which I never thought I would find someone else. You seamed to have had kids at a relatively "normal young age" but some people decide to have kids when they're in their 30s' and I completely agree. I had the most wonderful childhood growing up as a single child when to my parents who were 31 and 32 respectively had me. Since they only had to worry about me, life was pretty relaxed and my parents never freaked about anything I did, I was also a cautious child so I never really got into trouble. They had an amazing sex life, . . in fact maybe too amazing, I found out later when I was an adult that a lot of my next door neighbors were envious of how well my parents got along together. Having kids in your 20s is hard because that's when you want to party and explore the world also you're not financially stable and need to learn how to be independent, when you're 30 you probably already have a job along with a degree or training and you've probably found the one who would like to raise a family with.
*As for me I would like to have 1 to 2 kids, but NOT 3 or more. Everyone's different some people want a lot of kids some want none.