Of course, I meant as a character orientation, emotional aptitude; not for every single detail of private life!
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VinsCool
"suffer in silence, or suffer in front of everyone else, and risk misunderstandings and getting hurt from the people you trusted opening up?"
Nikokaro
Do not suffer in front of others, but confide in each other, share the suffering, and overcome it. We say "mal comune mezzo gaudio" ( shared pain is half a joy).
In the end, all suffering, especially mental, is an illusion, it is the EGO that suffers: helping others is the best medicine. Even in small things.
In the end, all suffering, especially mental, is an illusion, it is the EGO that suffers: helping others is the best medicine. Even in small things.
VinsCool
...I was only half serious but are you for real there?
VinsCool
Being told "suffering is an illusion" is a bit upsetting, honestly.
Nikokaro
VinsCool, Suffering it is often unnecessary, it is self-induced. One has selfish attachment to things or people, and when loses these, the EGO loses a part of itself. If you are self-sufficient, without attachment and addiction, suffering does not happen, or is greatly reduced.
VinsCool
...excuse me? I owe *you* an apology for being a little upset over something that, in *my* opinion, was inconsiderate, and the opposite of being compassionate?
In this case, I am sorry for getting angry and taking it personal, you are free to have your own way to view the world, and you are also free to be wrong, I can accept it.
In this case, I am sorry for getting angry and taking it personal, you are free to have your own way to view the world, and you are also free to be wrong, I can accept it.
In general, though, that is indeed good advice.
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