OK so I downloaded both the IOS60 v6174 and system menu 4.1E and packed them into wads using the tool you gave me.
Chose IOS 202 to run wad manager (it didn't on 249).
Installed IOS60
Installed system menu 4.1E
Restarted wii, preloder didn't show up, system menu came, checked, I am on 4.1E...