Two months ago I left my boyfriends and last month I came back from the grave to bother the Temp, so I felt like it's time for another update blog on how my life has been since then.
Late last month I actually moved back into my old apartment with my girlfriend, Rhi (she gave my permission to use female pronouns while she figures things out,) and it was not pretty. My exes left the place both trashed and empty for us and of course left without warning me about large patches of mold that I am very much allergic to. So it was not a fun experience as we ventured through the place and found that they had basically taken everything of value, regardless if it belonged to them or not and then literally left us with their garbage and nearly all of their clothing. After about two weeks of cleaning and damage reporting, we found they left us with several hundred dollars in cleaning and damage repair, coupled with stealing well over 2000$ in computer parts, video games, consoles, trading cards, and much much more. This was a really heart breaking situation and I am still really tore up over this because they stole my GPUs, my N64 (that I had since launch,) DK64, Rule of Rose (along with several other extremely rare PS2 games,) my Switch, and most of my anime (several costing well over 100$ for just one disk.) That all being said though, we've started replacing all the furniture that they had taken and my friends are working on replacing the things mentioned above. The place has since been cleaned up and declared mold free, so it's not all bad outside of their shitty actions.
So what has happened since then? Since then we've gotten ourselves new phones along with getting the internet, lease, and electricity setup to us, and we've started just living life together. There's really nothing too amazing going on, which is actually really nice. Our relationship hasn't really suffered since living together, we've been working together to help each other, and it's just a normal relationship for once. It's nice finally feeling happy and comfortable with someone that I know feels the same about me. I don't feel like I am going to be hurt by Rhi and I see a bright future with her. I do plan on posting a picture of us together at some point so you all can see the one who helped me through the hardest parts of my life and brought me so much joy in my life now.
Now to address a few questions before they are asked; How were those two able to steal so much from me? Well because I wasn't living with them and refused to help them pack. I knew they would corner me if I was there and would only do more damage to me if I had helped me, so instead we agreed through chats on Facebook and verbal agreements. Instead of respecting those agreements they went out of their way to take everything that they agreed was mine. I trusted that they would have had some respect me, but it appears I was wrong and that they were just bad people with no real respect me.
Did I sue them or take legal action? I wanted to, but I am still debating and working on this issue. There are a lot of concerns that just make it harder for me.
1: It's a lot of time and effort to deal with them. They want a reaction out of me and it's obvious just how badly they wanted me react. They spent so much time time digging through my stuff to take everything of value, that they didn't even pack most of their own clothing. It's one thing to be spiteful, it's another to be this level of spiteful. I don't want to feed into that kind of complex because I know they are just trying to use this for their own kind of twisted mind games.
2: They had already sold a lot of the games of value, so they most likely sold everything else. I came to find out weeks later that they had sold all of my PS4 games and most of my Wii U games. Since they stole everything of value, they've most likely already sold them or have been working on selling them. That just adds another layer of shit I will have go through that only adds more of my time to the courts.
3: Chances are high that I won't get anything out of it. I need to prove everything and there's just a lot much to prove and too little to back it all up.
4: Rhi and I plan on going to Japan in the near future and honestly it's not worth staling that move for them. I need to move forward and I can't do that with two feet firmly planted in the past. Bring them to court could take months to deal with and even possibly years if they feel like dragging it out. That will only stale our move and even possible kill it if they want to keep pushing it. I am not willing to deal with something like this when the future is so much brighter than the past.
So those two can have my stuff, they won't get a reaction out of me. I have a bright future ahead of me, they just have stuff.
Thanks for reading my blog and here's another great Lilith pic for y'all!
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Today is a hand drawn picture of Lilith dressed as my character from Monster Hunter Story. This one was drawn by my lovely Rhi <3
Late last month I actually moved back into my old apartment with my girlfriend, Rhi (she gave my permission to use female pronouns while she figures things out,) and it was not pretty. My exes left the place both trashed and empty for us and of course left without warning me about large patches of mold that I am very much allergic to. So it was not a fun experience as we ventured through the place and found that they had basically taken everything of value, regardless if it belonged to them or not and then literally left us with their garbage and nearly all of their clothing. After about two weeks of cleaning and damage reporting, we found they left us with several hundred dollars in cleaning and damage repair, coupled with stealing well over 2000$ in computer parts, video games, consoles, trading cards, and much much more. This was a really heart breaking situation and I am still really tore up over this because they stole my GPUs, my N64 (that I had since launch,) DK64, Rule of Rose (along with several other extremely rare PS2 games,) my Switch, and most of my anime (several costing well over 100$ for just one disk.) That all being said though, we've started replacing all the furniture that they had taken and my friends are working on replacing the things mentioned above. The place has since been cleaned up and declared mold free, so it's not all bad outside of their shitty actions.
So what has happened since then? Since then we've gotten ourselves new phones along with getting the internet, lease, and electricity setup to us, and we've started just living life together. There's really nothing too amazing going on, which is actually really nice. Our relationship hasn't really suffered since living together, we've been working together to help each other, and it's just a normal relationship for once. It's nice finally feeling happy and comfortable with someone that I know feels the same about me. I don't feel like I am going to be hurt by Rhi and I see a bright future with her. I do plan on posting a picture of us together at some point so you all can see the one who helped me through the hardest parts of my life and brought me so much joy in my life now.
Now to address a few questions before they are asked; How were those two able to steal so much from me? Well because I wasn't living with them and refused to help them pack. I knew they would corner me if I was there and would only do more damage to me if I had helped me, so instead we agreed through chats on Facebook and verbal agreements. Instead of respecting those agreements they went out of their way to take everything that they agreed was mine. I trusted that they would have had some respect me, but it appears I was wrong and that they were just bad people with no real respect me.
Did I sue them or take legal action? I wanted to, but I am still debating and working on this issue. There are a lot of concerns that just make it harder for me.
1: It's a lot of time and effort to deal with them. They want a reaction out of me and it's obvious just how badly they wanted me react. They spent so much time time digging through my stuff to take everything of value, that they didn't even pack most of their own clothing. It's one thing to be spiteful, it's another to be this level of spiteful. I don't want to feed into that kind of complex because I know they are just trying to use this for their own kind of twisted mind games.
2: They had already sold a lot of the games of value, so they most likely sold everything else. I came to find out weeks later that they had sold all of my PS4 games and most of my Wii U games. Since they stole everything of value, they've most likely already sold them or have been working on selling them. That just adds another layer of shit I will have go through that only adds more of my time to the courts.
3: Chances are high that I won't get anything out of it. I need to prove everything and there's just a lot much to prove and too little to back it all up.
4: Rhi and I plan on going to Japan in the near future and honestly it's not worth staling that move for them. I need to move forward and I can't do that with two feet firmly planted in the past. Bring them to court could take months to deal with and even possibly years if they feel like dragging it out. That will only stale our move and even possible kill it if they want to keep pushing it. I am not willing to deal with something like this when the future is so much brighter than the past.
So those two can have my stuff, they won't get a reaction out of me. I have a bright future ahead of me, they just have stuff.
Thanks for reading my blog and here's another great Lilith pic for y'all!
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Today is a hand drawn picture of Lilith dressed as my character from Monster Hunter Story. This one was drawn by my lovely Rhi <3
