I have been thinking about how some people have such great lives… but what I consider a great life…. is MUCH different from what you might consider a great life.
A lot of people think that a great life is having money to spend whenever they want… having a fancy house and a fancy car. Eating at fancy resturants… but… that’s not what I think…
Nope, I think about it MUCH differently…. here’s what I think a great life is.
I think a great life is one that… you don’t cry yourself asleep every night knowing that you will never have a dad that you can play ball with…
A great life knowing that your mom will be there when you need a shoulder to cry on.
A great life is knowing that when you gratuate from school, your parents will be there together and they will be proud of what their son has done with his life.
I don’t have a great life...
I don’t have a dad to play catch with… or to get advice from… or to go fishing with... Or anything like that.
I don’t have a mom that will be there to comfort me when I am scared. Or, when I need a shoulder to cry on… or to learn from…
I don’t have parents that love each other and are together.
They won’t be there when I graduate.
They won’t be there to send me off to college.
It’s funny… I have this… “dream”... I guess you would call it.
I have this dream that one day I will wake up in a big house. I’ll have a nice big room. I’ll go to the kitchen and my mom will be there with a smile on her face making breakfast… my dad will be in the livingroom watching sports. My brother and sister will be playing with our dogs… everything would be happy. Everyone would be happy. There won’t be any fighting between my parents. They would be happily married. My brother, my sister, and I would get along just fine. My mom and dad would have decent jobs. We would have a car or a truck… or both. We wouldn’t be yelled at for every little thing we do wrong. It would be perfect…
BUT, dreams are just dreams aren’t they? All of those things I just typed are just words… they will never become a reality, now will they? So… everytime I think about having a perfect life… I cry. I cry so hard, I can’t breath… I cry because I know that would never happen. I know that my parents would never get back together. I know that I will never have that special bond with my parents that most people have with theirs.
So… I guess what I am trying to say is… not everyone has a good life. Some people have a bad life because of their personal choices… some people have a bad life because of someone else’s choices. Just remember, everything you do has consequences. They can be good or bad. And they effect everyone around you.
If you think you have a good life, I want you to do me a favor:
Think about all the things you have that other people don’t have.
Think about all the opportunities that you have that others don’t have.
I want you to thank everyone that has helped you to be where you are today.
Whether that is your parents, a teacher, a friend, whoever. Thank them for what they have done for you. And let them be examples for you and your children. (If you have any in the future)
And please… don’t leave your children… it puts too much emotional and mental stress on them. I know that for a fact.
A lot of people think that a great life is having money to spend whenever they want… having a fancy house and a fancy car. Eating at fancy resturants… but… that’s not what I think…
Nope, I think about it MUCH differently…. here’s what I think a great life is.
I think a great life is one that… you don’t cry yourself asleep every night knowing that you will never have a dad that you can play ball with…
A great life knowing that your mom will be there when you need a shoulder to cry on.
A great life is knowing that when you gratuate from school, your parents will be there together and they will be proud of what their son has done with his life.
I don’t have a great life...
I don’t have a dad to play catch with… or to get advice from… or to go fishing with... Or anything like that.
I don’t have a mom that will be there to comfort me when I am scared. Or, when I need a shoulder to cry on… or to learn from…
I don’t have parents that love each other and are together.
They won’t be there when I graduate.
They won’t be there to send me off to college.
It’s funny… I have this… “dream”... I guess you would call it.
I have this dream that one day I will wake up in a big house. I’ll have a nice big room. I’ll go to the kitchen and my mom will be there with a smile on her face making breakfast… my dad will be in the livingroom watching sports. My brother and sister will be playing with our dogs… everything would be happy. Everyone would be happy. There won’t be any fighting between my parents. They would be happily married. My brother, my sister, and I would get along just fine. My mom and dad would have decent jobs. We would have a car or a truck… or both. We wouldn’t be yelled at for every little thing we do wrong. It would be perfect…
BUT, dreams are just dreams aren’t they? All of those things I just typed are just words… they will never become a reality, now will they? So… everytime I think about having a perfect life… I cry. I cry so hard, I can’t breath… I cry because I know that would never happen. I know that my parents would never get back together. I know that I will never have that special bond with my parents that most people have with theirs.
So… I guess what I am trying to say is… not everyone has a good life. Some people have a bad life because of their personal choices… some people have a bad life because of someone else’s choices. Just remember, everything you do has consequences. They can be good or bad. And they effect everyone around you.
If you think you have a good life, I want you to do me a favor:
Think about all the things you have that other people don’t have.
Think about all the opportunities that you have that others don’t have.
I want you to thank everyone that has helped you to be where you are today.
Whether that is your parents, a teacher, a friend, whoever. Thank them for what they have done for you. And let them be examples for you and your children. (If you have any in the future)
And please… don’t leave your children… it puts too much emotional and mental stress on them. I know that for a fact.