My Girlfriend Might Be a Lesbian

Yeah, what the title says.

I met up with her today, and we went out - had fun, usual stuff. Picked me up some underwear. Picked up my laptop. Good times.

Anyway, if any of you knew me in real life...I'm kind of a thinker. I come up with really....odd and usually pretty good ideas all the time. As a side effect...I kinda dive into people's heads a lot.

Long story short, I believe that she is a lesbian, and won't admit it to herself for social and acceptance reasons (since you all don't know her, it would be silly and for naught to go into reasoning here).

Really, the fact that she says that she doesn't know leaves things open to experimentation, but y'know.

I'm ok with it, though, I mean how it exists in relation to our relationship. I kinda feel that she's more of a family member than a sexual partner anyway, and that won't go away.

Just thought I'd let y'all know.

-Monkat the Super Awesome and Sexy Monkey King

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F
It's only good if she'll agree to a three way. Those are super fun. you should talk her into trying it. I'd be a safe way for her to experiment.
 
monkat
[quote name='shlong' post='3357975' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:30 PM']Kewl.
Threesome time :yay:[/quote]
[quote name='Fireballo' post='3357981' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:32 PM']It's only good if she'll agree to a three way. Those are super fun. you should talk her into trying it. I'd be a safe way for her to experiment.[/quote]
...Seriously, guys? Sigh....

[quote name='A Gay Little Cat Boy' post='3357976' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:30 PM']For some reason this perplexes the Cat Boy :huh:[/quote]
Perplex isn't really the word I thought you would use...interest, maybe?
 
Clydefrosch
Did you ever think about the chance that she might be, like 99% of all humans, just a little bi?

Or nothing at all?

Shesh, you also should be careful, you know, some girls might read a lot into the fact that their boyfriends theorize about them being lebians and actually being ok if the relationship should end because of that.
And boy, you're not going to be happy with the shitstorm you're getting yourself into. It'll make this family like part of your relation kind of hard.


Also, why would a gay catboy be interested in lesbians?
 
The Catboy
[quote name='monkat' post='3357986' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:33 PM'][quote name='A Gay Little Cat Boy' post='3357976' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:30 PM']For some reason this perplexes the Cat Boy :huh:[/quote]
Perplex isn't really the word I thought you would use...interest, maybe?
[/quote]
Nope, not really interested in your lesbian girlfriend.
 
monkat
[quote name='Clydefrosch' post='3358010' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:43 PM']Did you ever think about the chance that she might be, like 99% of all humans, just a little bi?

Or nothing at all?[/quote]
Absolutely! If you knew me at all, even from the temp, you'd know I'm one of the biggest supporters of the innate bisexuality theory!

Shesh, you also should be careful, you know, some girls might read a lot into the fact that their boyfriends theorize about them being lebians and actually being ok if the relationship should end because of that.
And boy, you're not going to be happy with the shitstorm you're getting yourself into. It'll make this family like part of your relation kind of hard.
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Oh, come on now - I'm not that impulsive!

Also, why would a gay catboy be interested in lesbians?
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Perplexed! Not interested.
 
FusionDragon
wow this is very amusing. and i find it it very interesting so many users are reading this topic lol

appearently from my unidentified sources. most who are gay/bi know at least by the time the turn 10ish. so if you have any evidence about it what so ever i say straight out. "you know me, and you know im a thinker. do you have any interest in women because if so im okay with that. chances are she isnt but if you really have evidence then really tell her if she wants to be truely happy in life she must admit it to herself. btw my source was wiki answers. fusiondragon Also is officialy perplexed by this thread. :P
 
monkat
[quote name='FusionDragon' post='3358066' date='Dec 29 2010, 07:07 PM']appearently from my unidentified sources. most who are gay/bi know at least by the time the turn 10ish. so if you have any evidence about it what so ever i say straight out. "you know me, and you know im a thinker. do you have any interest in women because if so im okay with that. chances are she isnt but if you really have evidence then really tell her if she wants to be truely happy in life she must admit it to herself. btw my source was wiki answers. fusiondragon Also is officialy perplexed by this thread. :P[/quote]

I'm sorry...

I just can't read your writing.
 
431unknown
If your cool with it then why even bring it up? Are you one of those type of guys that just likes knowing the truth and or reasons behind everything?
 
monkat
[quote name='431unknown' post='3358095' date='Dec 29 2010, 07:22 PM']If your cool with it then why even bring it up? Are you one of those type of guys that just likes knowing the truth and or reasons behind everything?[/quote]
1. Cuz....it's a blog? I've made tons of blogs. It's what I do! Like a journal. But with people inside :creep:'

2. Knowing the truth and reasons behind things? Isn't that...everyone with any sense of curiosity what-so-ever?
 
Lily
[quote name='shlong' post='3357975' date='Dec 29 2010, 02:30 PM']Kewl.
Threesome time :yay:[/quote]

I know this will probably shock you and completely ruin all the fantasies you've developed from watching "lesbian" porn, but the very thought of having a threesome with a guy actually varies from being completely repulsive to complete disinterest. Lesbian is lesbian, not bisexual.

/the more you know
 
FusionDragon
cant read my writing? dude just ask her if she is. straight up say, brittany, you wont be happy in life unless you admit to yourself you are a flaming homosexual. if you are okay with it then do not worry about it, and go on with your life like nothing happened.
 
Ace
[quote name='FusionDragon' post='3358124' date='Dec 30 2010, 12:40 AM']cant read my writing? dude just ask her if she is. straight up say, brittany, you wont be happy in life unless you admit to yourself you are a flaming homosexual. if you are okay with it then do not worry about it, and go on with your life like nothing happened.[/quote]

I'm having a hard time telling if you're honestly trolling (haha oxymoron). Depending on their relationship, it could be insulting to ask something like this after x amount of months together in a relationship.

Edit: I don't recall OP asking what he should do/ask. Why make so much speculation, really? To paraphrase: "Just letting you guys know"
 
KingdomBlade
It's funny how many people are reading the thread when the saw the title had "lesbian" in it.

Also, good for you for being an accepting boyfriend. I hope that if she ever comes out, you guys will turn out to be like... siblings I guess.
 
F
Ever think you might be the gay one projecting on your girlfriend? I mean you sound pretty gay. It could be that she doesn't want to say anything because she thinks your the gay one. Why don't you go ahead and tell her you're gay and see what she says. I bet she'll say"I knew it"
 
431unknown
[quote name='monkat' post='3358106' date='Dec 29 2010, 06:32 PM'][quote name='431unknown' post='3358095' date='Dec 29 2010, 07:22 PM']If your cool with it then why even bring it up? Are you one of those type of guys that just likes knowing the truth and or reasons behind everything?[/quote]
1. Cuz....it's a blog? I've made tons of blogs. It's what I do! Like a journal. But with people inside :creep:'

2. Knowing the truth and reasons behind things? Isn't that...everyone with any sense of curiosity what-so-ever?
[/quote]


Ok, well then if it's what you do (blogging that is )then go into more detail about why you think she's a lesbian. Because I want to know the truth and reasoning about how you came to think this about her.
 

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