Feeling down

shit that sucks...iunno wat to say. i'm feelin kinda down too, though that's cuz my midterms r comin up and i haven't studied yet lol. (cuz of this site )

well i hope it all works out for the best.

This site is a distraction. Ive wasted hours here. like right now i shoulbd be writing a research paper. but im here. on the temper web.

yep, keeps me from studying often too, but I guess the topics and ppl here are just too interesting.

I hear you OSW...That must be really fucked up....I never had such situation with my girl (thanks God), but I'm in exactly the same situation with a friend and I know how can that be hurtful..

Well, as you said GBAtemp can be pretty distractive!! I do hope you'll solve that problem with her!!

She had a huge go at me.

she always tells me not to hold on to past arguments and mistakes, but what she did today was exactly that

it's like a massive fanboy. even if the truth stares them in the face they'll deny it. and they'll contradict themself many times but never realize it.

i strongly wanted to argue with what she said...because deep inside i don't agree with almost all of it.

i usually don't believe in holding back my own strong feelings, or being submissive, but i made an exception. I apologized alot, and smoothed things out. I'm sure if i hadn't we'd be over right now.

Maybe one day she'll learn to respect my opinions. people can change right?

Look on the Bright Side

OSW... thats not good man. You know that, too. You love her, but if she is going to treat you like this, then it wont work. What you have to do is talk to her about how you feel. Not while she is mad at you for no reason, but give it a couple of weeks so she can calm down. But you don't want to be with someone who doesn't care about how you feel, no matter how much you love her.

science, i know what you mean, but it's tough.

I tell her about how i feel a lot. but most of the time it makes things worse. This situation half happened because i told her some negative feelings i had.

If i tell her that she wasn't very caring or didn't put enough effort into our relationship, she'll tell me that i'm selfish and that i don't care about her enough.
If i tell her that i feel bad about a wrong she did, she'll tell me to let it go and not hold it grudges. Often neglecting to take responsibilty.

I think her short temper really lies behind a lot of this.

looking back on the way she has treated me over a long period of time, i sometimes wonder whether there is any love at all.

But i think you all know it's not so easy to let something like this go. I don't want to let it go, i want to keep trying, at least for a while. Not all the signs are bad, but this is definitely a bad patch.

Why not break up with her if she's treating you like this? Are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her or do you think it's not gonna work out? A relationship is supposed to be fun for the both of you, not a hassle ;/