I hate the kids at my school

As for as I know black people call each other that all the time

[quote name='Damage Inc.' timestamp='1326937261'] As for as I know black people call each other that all the time [/quote] not the actually word they use a (somewhat) toned word that is off by two letters. I feel extremely offended by that kid doing that.

[quote name='Giggtysword344' timestamp='1326937617']not the actually word they use a (somewhat) toned word that is off by two letters. I feel extremely offended by that kid doing that. [/quote]You have the option to ignore him or just snitch.

Imho that kid deserves a beating.
Then again violence wouldn't solve anything...

I do agree with Damage inc on 1 part that is for afro-american streetgangs.
But as for "normal" afro-americans I hardly ever heard it saying to each other.

I think that that kid was just trying to act tough to his friends.
He's nothing better then a lousy chav then.

Just ignore him and if it gets any worse then I should considder talking to the school principal about it.

As for the "N" word....
I find it indeed somewhat racist, but then again I can't judge since I'm not coloured (actually my skin colour is somewhat yellowish xd)

[quote name='s4mid4re' timestamp='1326938892'] [quote name='Giggtysword344' timestamp='1326937617']not the actually word they use a (somewhat) toned word that is off by two letters. I feel extremely offended by that kid doing that. [/quote]You have the option to ignore him or just snitch. [/quote] Thats what i cant decide to do.

[quote name='DinohScene' timestamp='1326939302'] Imho that kid deserves a beating.Then again violence wouldn't solve anything... I do agree with Damage inc on 1 part that is for afro-american streetgangs.But as for "normal" afro-americans I hardly ever heard it saying to each other. I think that that kid was just trying to act tough to his friends.He's nothing better then a lousy chav then. Just ignore him and if it gets any worse then I should considder talking to the school principal about it. As for the "N" word....I find it indeed somewhat racist, but then again I can't judge since I'm not coloured (actually my skin colour is somewhat yellowish xd) [/quote] Thanks Dinoh that does kinda help

I've been bullied and called at nearly all my life so learned to ignore it most of the time and talk myself out of it pretty good ;p

With the added effect of getting back at them at a civilized and "intelligent" way.

Racism is the dumbest possible point for "bullying"
It doesn't matter if you're red or yellow, black or white.
It's proven that humanity sprung to life in Africa.
So in the end we're all the same ;]

[quote name='DinohScene' timestamp='1326941311'] I've been bullied and called at nearly all my life so learned to ignore it most of the time and talk myself out of it pretty good ;p With the added effect of getting back at them at a civilized and "intelligent" way. Racism is the dumbest possible point for "bullying"It doesn't matter if you're red or yellow, black or white.It's proven that humanity sprung to life in Africa.So in the end we're all the same ;] [/quote] Thanks alot dinoh, Really thanks alot. it does help to know people who know what you are going through.

I haven't had school in 1,5 years and haven't been outside/had social contact for nearly 6 months now but I still know how to deal with people that think their tougher then you by name calling etc ;p

You're welcome at anytime ;]

Buy a book or print a thick article where the subject matter is the derogatory nature of the word n***er, and the subject of the book/article is VERY obvious at first glance. If he calls you a n***er again, pretend to be going to drop off some trash in a bin, and walk past his table. When you walk past, drop the book/article on the table right in front of him.

Do this as many times as needed.

If possible try to avoid or ignore him completely.


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Reminds me of a certain bit in 30 Rock...

Maybe its because I'm white, so I just don't get "it" but why the frustration?

Them just wurdz. To me, the only people allowed to be offended are old and/or dyeing people who actually lived in a time the word was associated with hate. Its not like you've lived in 1400-1970. As if you know what its like to actually experience "seperate but equal" As if you know what its like to get dirty looks, denied services or jobs, or just blatenly being mistreated as a human being soley for the reason of your skin tone.

You mentioned school, so you're a kid. So [censored] is just a word. Don't let it bother you. I can tell you for certian that racial slurs against whites don't bother them abit. Never in my life have I, or my caucasian bretheren ever been offended by being called honkey, or wonder bread, or cracker, or saltine, because they're just words we roll our eyes at. You mentioned school, so you're a kid, who has yet to even understand words of suffering, so you don't have any real reason to be offended by it.

However... if you're being bullied, then thats a different thing all together. You're fucked. Kids are brutally mean, and Adults (teachers, parents) can't really do shit to help you. Your best option is just to avoid your enemies because in highschool, conflicts in bully-situations are never one-on-one. The friends of your enemy is your enemy and the possibility of you getting fucked up by them is very real should you choose to retaliate. I know from experience that these kind of things make you dread going to school, but theres really nothing you or anyone can do or say to really help. Just endure torment and resist the urge for suicide and you'll be fine-ish.

You mentioned school, so you're a kid. Though should you get into a fight, don't try and do that "not fighting back" thing. I didn't even defend myself in my 1st fight for fear of getting a ticket/fine that my mother would have to pay. Didn't even raise my hand when I was being hit multiple times... still got a ticket for it. Yes... just being a victim gets you in hot water, so you might as well try and do as much damage to that [censored]'s face while you can. Cheap shots do count... Throat shots, nut shots, the object is to deliver pain even if it means being branded a bitch. I know I regret not fighting like a bitch as I want my enemies to suffer. Coughing up blood due to internal injuries is a good thing, much better than a weak-ass bop on the cheek.

Should you be offended by my lack of sensitivity for your situation... its the internet, deal with it. I like exploding severed heads and then following that up with an episode of My Little Pony. Clearly my opinions are worth nothing, if they are not worth something. You mentioned kid, so you're a school.

Kick his ass.