So here is the deal, my wife and I live in a 3 bedroom house and we just found out she is pregnant. Some issues are going on with her work but her union rep is supposedly going to fix that and my Dad is a lawyer so if he doesn't my dad will, plus her income is for savings we really live off mine. (Hold on this is important backstory for giving me appropriate advice) One bedroom is ours, the 2nd is my office ie how I provide for my family, and the third we want to be the nursery/childs room; BUT my handicapped elderly mother lives with us and it is her room at the moment. She has DCNSD, PKD, Alzhiemers, Tremors, and some other issues. She only gets $872/month from the Govn't (BTW No bashing my mom she worked and paid into the system for 42 years before this all happened) so its not enough for her to live on her own. Around here rent for a 1 bedroom studio in a crappy area is $500/month that leaves her with $372 for a Bus Pass, Food, Rx Copay's, and Basic Utilities.... Just no way.
Anyways my problem is we need the room, but I don't have the heart, and not even sure if I have the right as she was a great mom, to tell her to leave. What do I do. Help, Tips, Advice? Thanks.
Elmoreas
P.S. I thought of having her move out and use her own money as much as she could and then whatever she fell short on, my wife and I would pay. But considering the source of our spare income and the need to start saving for a baby my wife doesn't like that idea... at all.
Anyways my problem is we need the room, but I don't have the heart, and not even sure if I have the right as she was a great mom, to tell her to leave. What do I do. Help, Tips, Advice? Thanks.
Elmoreas
P.S. I thought of having her move out and use her own money as much as she could and then whatever she fell short on, my wife and I would pay. But considering the source of our spare income and the need to start saving for a baby my wife doesn't like that idea... at all.