I don't know what to do...

Let her go man. Crazy thing about life. Whenever you let go of something nice, you get something better in return.

[quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2595662' date='Feb 12 2010, 10:26 PM']I'm just kind of confused right now about this girl I think I may like but I'm not sure. I say the term "think" because I'm having mixed feelings about her. She seems like my ideal girl, she has morals, she knows what she wants to do with her life, doesn't act or talk like a damn slut not to mention she is very gorgeous. But the thing is she is one of those "high maintenance" sort of girls...she always dresses nice (and I mean always) and she is very mature. But 2 of my friends don't see her that way.

One of my friends (my best friend) once said she was two faced a fake and that's one of my peeves, I don't like fakers. I don't know the details of what happened but they were in the heat of some argument. I'm not sure if maybe if it was true or maybe he's just saying it because he was angry maybe.

My other friend told me that she isn't the right girl from me because like I said in the first paragraph, she is high maintenance. And I told him the many reasons I like her and he told me that I was going about it all wrong...that she makes it seems she's more mature and grown to garner attention to herself which makes me believe that again she is fake and I don't like that in a girl.

They both bring up valid points about her but I don't know what to think or how to go about it...I'm having mixed feelings about her now and I want to let her go but it is proving really difficult for me to just not think about her.[/quote]

Doing anything right now would be too early. You're still in high school, right? Having a girlfriend may be cool, but you'll still have many years to come, yeah? Honestly, I don't get why people want a girl friend so early in their life. You're going to break up eventually anyway.

You kind of answer your own question.
You will know when its right follow your own guts.

[quote name='Tropicana' post='2595705' date='Feb 13 2010, 01:55 AM'][quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2595662' date='Feb 12 2010, 10:26 PM']I'm just kind of confused right now about this girl I think I may like but I'm not sure. I say the term "think" because I'm having mixed feelings about her. She seems like my ideal girl, she has morals, she knows what she wants to do with her life, doesn't act or talk like a damn slut not to mention she is very gorgeous. But the thing is she is one of those "high maintenance" sort of girls...she always dresses nice (and I mean always) and she is very mature. But 2 of my friends don't see her that way.

One of my friends (my best friend) once said she was two faced a fake and that's one of my peeves, I don't like fakers. I don't know the details of what happened but they were in the heat of some argument. I'm not sure if maybe if it was true or maybe he's just saying it because he was angry maybe.

My other friend told me that she isn't the right girl from me because like I said in the first paragraph, she is high maintenance. And I told him the many reasons I like her and he told me that I was going about it all wrong...that she makes it seems she's more mature and grown to garner attention to herself which makes me believe that again she is fake and I don't like that in a girl.

They both bring up valid points about her but I don't know what to think or how to go about it...I'm having mixed feelings about her now and I want to let her go but it is proving really difficult for me to just not think about her.[/quote]

Doing anything right now would be too early. You're still in high school, right? Having a girlfriend may be cool, but you'll still have many years to come, yeah? Honestly, I don't get why people want a girl friend so early in their life. You're going to break up eventually anyway.
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This is the best advice you can recieve.

The only way you are going find out anything about this girl is if you talk to her and get to know her. Heresy and second-hand opinions mean nothing. YOUR opinion of her is the only thing that matters if you want to get with her, and you can't do any of that unless you talk to her and find out if she truly what you seek.

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As for it being too early to consider dating.....no. If you start having feelings for someone, it is healthy to act on them and make your feelings known. It helps build your social skills and refine your ideals when looking for a potential mate in future relationships. And if you are still in high school, there will be many more relationships in your future. This one may go well, it may not. Look at all of it as a learning experience.

[quote name='Tropicana' post='2595705' date='Feb 13 2010, 03:25 PM'][quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2595662' date='Feb 12 2010, 10:26 PM']I'm just kind of confused right now about this girl I think I may like but I'm not sure. I say the term "think" because I'm having mixed feelings about her. She seems like my ideal girl, she has morals, she knows what she wants to do with her life, doesn't act or talk like a damn slut not to mention she is very gorgeous. But the thing is she is one of those "high maintenance" sort of girls...she always dresses nice (and I mean always) and she is very mature. But 2 of my friends don't see her that way.

One of my friends (my best friend) once said she was two faced a fake and that's one of my peeves, I don't like fakers. I don't know the details of what happened but they were in the heat of some argument. I'm not sure if maybe if it was true or maybe he's just saying it because he was angry maybe.

My other friend told me that she isn't the right girl from me because like I said in the first paragraph, she is high maintenance. And I told him the many reasons I like her and he told me that I was going about it all wrong...that she makes it seems she's more mature and grown to garner attention to herself which makes me believe that again she is fake and I don't like that in a girl.

They both bring up valid points about her but I don't know what to think or how to go about it...I'm having mixed feelings about her now and I want to let her go but it is proving really difficult for me to just not think about her.[/quote]

Doing anything right now would be too early. You're still in high school, right? Having a girlfriend may be cool, but you'll still have many years to come, yeah? Honestly, I don't get why people want a girl friend so early in their life. You're going to break up eventually anyway.
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Because we're horny xD

[quote name='MuppetInvasion' post='2595924' date='Feb 13 2010, 04:44 AM']Because we're horny xD[/quote]
Then you're looking for a fuck, not a girl who you're 'compatible with' etc. etc.

women are impossible to figure out and deal with

obviously I'm just venting cause I'm a fucking LOSER

[quote name='yuyuyup' post='2596469' date='Feb 13 2010, 04:50 PM']women are impossible to figure out and deal with

obviously I'm just venting cause I'm a fucking LOSER[/quote]
Yay, I found someone who is just like me!

Don't date in highschool. It pretty much never works out.
I council people on my spare time, and 90% of it is relationship woes from highschoolers, ergh.
Most teens aren't ready for relationships. We're goin' through too much to know exactly what we're looking for.
Plus people love to think they're more mature then they actually are, and thus think they can handle a 'serious' relationship.

[quote name='Omocho' post='2597700' date='Feb 13 2010, 10:46 PM']Don't date in highschool. It pretty much never works out.
I council people on my spare time, and 90% of it is relationship woes from highschoolers, ergh.
Most teens aren't ready for relationships. We're goin' through too much to know exactly what we're looking for.
Plus people love to think they're more mature then they actually are, and thus think they can handle a 'serious' relationship.[/quote]
Well I didn't date in high school and here I am 26 and still a womanless loser, so at what point in time should I be able to pursue women ?

Thanks for the advice guys...I've made up my mind. I'm not going to pursue her. It's pointless now to have a relationship towards the end of the school year, and then after that I most likely will not see her anymore. So I will wait till college to find that someone.

Again thank you members of GBAtemp, I am in your debt.

[quote name='yuyuyup' post='2598030' date='Feb 14 2010, 03:48 AM'][quote name='Omocho' post='2597700' date='Feb 13 2010, 10:46 PM']Don't date in highschool. It pretty much never works out.
I council people on my spare time, and 90% of it is relationship woes from highschoolers, ergh.
Most teens aren't ready for relationships. We're goin' through too much to know exactly what we're looking for.
Plus people love to think they're more mature then they actually are, and thus think they can handle a 'serious' relationship.[/quote]
Well I didn't date in high school and here I am 26 and still a womanless loser, so at what point in time should I be able to pursue women ?
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You can date anytime after high school. You can start now, before it's too late.

[quote name='Tropicana' post='2595705' date='Feb 13 2010, 05:55 AM'][quote name='Rock Raiyu' post='2595662' date='Feb 12 2010, 10:26 PM']I'm just kind of confused right now about this girl I think I may like but I'm not sure. I say the term "think" because I'm having mixed feelings about her. She seems like my ideal girl, she has morals, she knows what she wants to do with her life, doesn't act or talk like a damn slut not to mention she is very gorgeous. But the thing is she is one of those "high maintenance" sort of girls...she always dresses nice (and I mean always) and she is very mature. But 2 of my friends don't see her that way.

One of my friends (my best friend) once said she was two faced a fake and that's one of my peeves, I don't like fakers. I don't know the details of what happened but they were in the heat of some argument. I'm not sure if maybe if it was true or maybe he's just saying it because he was angry maybe.

My other friend told me that she isn't the right girl from me because like I said in the first paragraph, she is high maintenance. And I told him the many reasons I like her and he told me that I was going about it all wrong...that she makes it seems she's more mature and grown to garner attention to herself which makes me believe that again she is fake and I don't like that in a girl.

They both bring up valid points about her but I don't know what to think or how to go about it...I'm having mixed feelings about her now and I want to let her go but it is proving really difficult for me to just not think about her.[/quote]

Doing anything right now would be too early. You're still in high school, right? Having a girlfriend may be cool, but you'll still have many years to come, yeah? Honestly, I don't get why people want a girl friend so early in their life. You're going to break up eventually anyway.
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For practise and I'm not talking about sex. I think you learn alot from dating. Yeah you're probably going to break up, but that's just another process you should experience in order to grow.