Early morning nightmare - not just a dream

Hello everybody,


This morning I've had a shocking and disturbing experience regarding my mother's boyfriend (~3:40 AM GMT+1). Last night he went out on a walk (long one) and came home drunk, he had a drink, his excuse was that he was feeling down/upset (despite the fact that he just got a new job with a good pay, yesterday, and has a wonderful NEW family, and a new start). We had dinner, he wasn't all there, but everything was fine. I went into my room after watching Black Rose on TV, and fell asleep around 12:45 AM. So far so good, well not really, at 3:40 I woke up (he cam into my room, and turned the light on, was mumbling something) to find him pants down, p3nis hang out on my computer desk (about 3000 euros worth of hardware/consoles/and my HDTV) peeing, directly pointed at my mouse, he got a bit on the center channel speaker of my 5.1 system too (the thing was right in my face, since my PC sits next to the side of my bed). As I opened my eyes and came to my senses, I did like I would do in a nightmare, I hurled out loud and hit him as hard as I could, pushing him out. By that time everyone was awake, and my mom cam to hold him back. I hit a drunk man, and he tried coming after me. He didn't get me but as I finally locked my door, he started banging on it like hell. Well, enough said, I just spent 1 hour cleaning and scrubbing to save my computer, and get the aweful pee stain out. I'm 16 y/o, so only 2 more years of hell left. I extracted 70 euros out of him, he should at least pay me back for what is now useless.

This was all very traumatizing, I'm still not over it, as you can see, I am writing this message (with the closest thing to gloves I have, on my hands -zip lock bags...)

What do you think? I'm taking charge in the morning and throwing him out, whether my mom likes it or not, I could have him arrested.

God do I feel bad, I need some sleep, a shower, and some good advice.

Christian

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Brian117
Wow mate, sorry to hear that happened.

That guy sounds like a real douche if you don't mind me saying.

Of all things he pissed on, it had to be your electronics. Not your bed, wall, carpet, etc. Wow. It's all shitty how you did nothing wrong and you get paid back with that.

I hope things works out for you. Hope your electronics get saved because I know the feeling of losing equipment.
 
T
Wow, that is really tough. I have a rotten remarried parent, but no peeing involved. I would talk to your family pastor about it.
Good Luck.
 
Splych
Oh gawd...

I would feel so disgusted at my stuff by then. I would scream and kick him out for all I care.
 
vergilite
OMG you hit him (i would have taken him outside and shot him with a 12 gauge :P)(no really im not joking)

NOT THE ELECTRONICS especially the HD T.V thats expensive, i would kick him out
 
S
If that hapened to me I would be mad as hell your right to have done what you did and don't feel bad about punching a drunk man he had no real reason to get drunk like you said but unless he's a bad person outside of being drunk then don't kick him out if he pays for the stuff.
 
chrisman01
If somebody ruined this laptop I just got, I'd take my sword out of my closet and run him through.

NOT KIDDING. :hateit:

course, I'd have to come up with a better excuse for when everyone comes to check things out...
 
Sterling
hmm my brother's name is christian... and he is the exact same age as you. Although I don't drink :D
 
upbumpo190
Well, I managed to get back to sleep, and made sure to lock the door. I feel better now, but we'll see what happens when he wakes up. I think I'm done with shock wave 1, nothing bugs me more than piss.

My two newly born kittens helped me get over it :), although they don't really care (they slept through everything).

Me neither I don't think he's normal, he must really have problems. My mom told me he was talking about leaving, so maybe this is a attempt to piss us off so we'll kick him out. Apparently, he can't remember a thing. (BTW, he has done this drunk routine before, without the pissing)

Thanks for the reassurance guys! (It still disgusts me about the mouse, the one thing I use the most i.e. right now) but the speakers and computer are OK! A little smelly, but I'll dismantle them and carefully clean them properly.

I kept saying to myself, this must be a really bad dream, and was unable to wake up, of course, because it wasn't. :S

Christian
 
Maz7006
Always lock your door, nobody enters my room, but me, and i only let people in when i want to.

meh, it could have been worse. Plus you should take more than 70 Euros.
 
tylerxian
If this wasn't the first time, then I think you would be better off with him kicked to the curb. After all, there's the chance he might do it again. I have an uncle like that (getting drunk, rampaging) , but my nephew and my aunt would not do anything, perhaps they were afraid of what might happen to them. I'm not saying that you are afraid or anything but, it would be wise to do at least something. Talk, drag him out of the house, anything. That's what I think, oh and locking your door is a must, for your safety at night and privacy.
 
upbumpo190
From now on I will lock my door, that's for sure. My mom's giving him a lecture, but I don't think she's going to kick him out. He just woke up BTW, and the first thing he said was, give me my 70 euros back, but he won't get past my determination. I'm so hopping mad.

My mom leaves this afternoon, and he will most likely be here, but when he leaves for work, I'll lock the door and try to figure out a way to keep him out.

I don't want to disobey my mom, after all, I'm only 16, but it was nasty, and I'm scared to fall asleep. Sometimes love blinds logic, even in parents, nobody is perfect.

Christian
 
Maktub
Whereas I know that's disgusting from him, I would advice you NOT to report him to the police. He's not your boyfriend, he's your mothers. It is her who should kick him out of your place. You, as you said, have only 2 years left to bear that. My mothers ex gf was also like that. Once, he even grabbed my neck real hard... Cause I told him to f off with the loud TV (two tv's, same shitty videoclip at helluva lot of dB).

Anyway, my mom broke up with him some year or so after that (for different reasons, I think I never told her about that). I think the best is just to stick with it as long as you have to, no police UNLESS, of course, you're gonna get harmed or something (which I don't think will happen being THAT drunk as he was).

In any case, good luck and don't let that make you feel down, mate. It's not you, it's just some other guy. If you ever get blind drunk you'll find yourself doing that kind of stupidity and will, maybe, understand that it's not that much of a big deal in the mind of a drunk person. Have you tried to talk about it with him sober? Discuss it peacefully and trying to let him know how bad that made you feel. He probably doesn't even know that your computer is so dear to you.
 
U
and people wonder why I don't drink...

just be glad he paid you for what he damaged, and make sure to lock your door from now on. If you are worried the lock may not hold go buy a couple of door stops.
 
Y
call the cops on the dumbass, you want some drunk guy pissing on your pc FUCKING YOUR MOM ? You could prob get him locked the hell up. And if your mom tries to hand you some bullshit, just take a piss on HER computer
 
S
My brother in law has a problem where he sleep walk pees. He will be completely asleep and get up, walk to a random location and pee. He usually ends up i a closet but my sister told me that one time he made it to the kitchen and peed on the George Forman grill.
 
O
I've been pretty damn drunk before, but I never hurt anyone or caused a scene.

I understand that some people don't have that same level of control, but I'm quite biased against anyone who believes they can use it as an excuse for their harmful actions, based on my own experiences.
 

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