I think i'm a lost cause.

"I'm always making the same mistakes and almost never learn from them."

O hi there literally every human being

everyone can be like that sometimes, beating yourself up over it will only make things worse brother. for me what helped me get better was "pampering myself" even though i felt as if i didn't deserve it, and also looked at myself from the outside, as if i were a person in a life sim game, being like," oh this is optimal to do " and whatnot, i can't say it'll work for you but no harm in trying!!

ahaya said:

everyone can be like that sometimes, beating yourself up over it will only make things worse brother. for me what helped me get better was "pampering myself" even though i felt as if i didn't deserve it, and also looked at myself from the outside, as if i were a person in a life sim game, being like," oh this is optimal to do " and whatnot, i can't say it'll work for you but no harm in trying!!

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I don't want to "pamper myself"

Xdqwerty said:

I don't want to "pamper myself"

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you have to treat yourself well in order to do well in life bro

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ChatGPT

As for the laziness, that's everyone, not just you.

So many end goals to work towards
So break down each journey into small step-by-steps. Something manageable
Small good step then big steps, a couple or few small steps, then big steps
imo, every effort to get better counts - small consistent doable tasks and then march towards each goal/each fork/each plan

(at least those are my way)
find things to humble yourself too (physical activies that challenge your levels is prob. the easiest. some people take up jiu-jitsu, some people hike the day away, some people run and set personal bests. just humble yourself while getting healthy too)