Confess

How can you confess love to a man, or still a boy. I don't know. Let's suppose he's 19 years old.

How do you confess?
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impeeza
It's easy, DO NOT PLAY GAMES, DO NOT USE EUPHEMISMS, simply put in front of him and look into their eyes and say:

I am in love of you!

period do not need anymore.

(We the guys do not understand games, do not get hints, we are direct as hell)

And if you are fearing about getting rejected DON'T if he reject you, bumper, is his lost, the life is long enough to you lick your wound (yeah, will hurt a little bit but no seriously) and next time will hurt less, or next time will no hurt at all because the next boy will hug you. That is part of the joy.

Please do not let the fear avoid you to make the right, and do not let the little stings of life grown any resent or damage on you, YOU ARE THE BEST PERSON ON THE WORLD (unless you are a psychopath, but I don't think you are 😆)
 
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impeeza said:
It's easy, DO NOT PLAY GAMES, DO NOT USE EUPHEMISMS, simply put in front of him and look into their eyes and say:

I am in love of you!

period do not need anymore.

(We the guys do not understand games, do not get hints, we are direct as hell)

And if you are fearing about getting rejected DON'T if he reject you, bumper, is his lost, the life is long enough to you lick your wound (yeah, will hurt a little bit but no seriously) and next time will hurt less, or next time will no hurt at all because the next boy will hug you. That is part of the joy.

Please do not let the fear avoid you to make the right, and do not let the little stings of life grown any resent or damage on you, YOU ARE THE BEST PERSON ON THE WORLD (unless you are a psychopath, but I don't think you are 😆)
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Thx... But, I'm very nervous of doing it in person. Writing a letter would be okay enough?
 
impeeza
HiradeGirl said:
Thx... But, I'm very nervous of doing it in person. Writing a letter would be okay enough?
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Yeah, no problem, and don't be nervous, what is the worst thing can happen? if that happen tomorrow will no matter so go ahead!

A well written letter (message, chat, etc.) also can show a little part of you which is hard to show sometimes, so could be a good point to you.

be brave and go ahead!
 
HiradeGirl
impeeza said:
Yeah, no problem, and don't be nervous, what is the worst thing can happen? if that happen tomorrow will no matter so go ahead!

A well written letter (message, chat, etc.) also can show a little part of you which is hard to show sometimes, so could be a good point to you.

be brave and go ahead!
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thank you so much for your comments. ill try to give him the letter before new year.
 
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JuanMena
At this point in time, it's very fair to use digital media, you know, PM or whatever.

Young people is so deprived from real human interaction that I'd consider weird if you'd come in person just to say "I like you" without even knowing each other (assuming you just like the guy and haven't met him for real).

In my personal experience, I can't think of a single girl that made the first step towards our relationship. It was always I the one to admit wanting something, but to be honest, women would approach me first to establish a relationship.

Except couple times with whom I regret the whole "love at first sight" thing.

Again, in my experience, is better to fully know the person before you establish a serious relationship, because there can't be commitment without being serious about it.

Meh, go for it.
 
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JuanMena said:
Sent him feet pics. Never fails.
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nah, I know for a fact he is more into boobs and bums. 🙂

he is a long time friend. I'm about one year older than him. my 21st birthday is very soon.

he knows me very well, but i'm not his "Best friend" by any means. I love his looks, but he also has great personality and he Is very charming.

being friends with him makes it even harder because I don't want to stop being friends even if he rejects me as a couple.

i'm writing a letter, but i'm still unsure about delivering it...

I'll go with boob pics if everything fails 😝
 
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HiradeGirl said:
nah, I know for a fact he is more into boobs and bums. 🙂

he is a long time friend. I'm about one year older than him. my 21st birthday is very soon.

he knows me very well, but i'm not his "Best friend" by any means. I love his looks, but he also has great personality and he Is very charming.

being friends with him makes it even harder because I don't want to stop being friends even if he rejects me as a couple.

i'm writing a letter, but i'm still unsure about delivering it...

I'll go with boob pics if everything fails 😝
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That's the spirit. You go gurl!
 
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plasturion
MigiBoy should be the first one to confess. I would say keep relationship as it is, if he does he will notice what you want to say sooner or later. Eyes don't lie.
 
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plasturion said:
MigiBoy should be the first one to confess. I would say keep relationship as it is, if he does he will notice what you want to say sooner or later. Eyes don't lie.
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he must be very obtuse then. i've been flirting, subtly of course, as shy as I am, for 10 months already. back in february I gifted him his favorite type of chocolates. i've invited him to my home for playing games, and he arrives with friends always. i've invited him to the movies, but he always decline.

maybe i'm the obtuse who doesn't understand he doesn't care about me... 🥲
 
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plasturion
Oh my, that pity. When he invite friends did he spent much time with you? Maybe he is also shy. Giving a chocolates is like kind of confess, that's kind of you. Maybe try confess yourself, you already did what you have to do. I wish you having chances spending as much time together as you can.
 
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impeeza
HiradeGirl said:
It all failed guys. He doesn't view me in any other way than as a friend.

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Well, now you know, nothing to do beside to make your own mourning about the feelings which must go.

But is better the certainty of where you are and be able to take the needed actions.
 
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