I have a crush

[quote name='alucard77' post='1775181' date='Feb 15 2009, 04:00 PM']Don't do anything. You shouldn't talk to her, cause you have 0 confidence. Anyone with 0 confidence should never talk to anyone.[/quote]





i've never been a playah but have had some decent luck with just going up to grlz and talking to them, if you get along then just move on from there. With girls you really really like this can be terrifying the first few times you try it, especially when your younger. But just do it, that's how you build confidence and it'll be easier next time.

(this is under the assumption you acually like her. if you want to just get into her vag., there are many ways to skin a cat (lol))

The one i really like i have been in class for two years never talked to her etc. but then i 'saw her for the first time' and started talking to her, becoming friends with her. it's not that hard talking to girls
these are (in order) most important things to have:
1 have confidence most important part of all.
(2 Optional: be athletic, meaning do a sport etc.)
3 don't be a jerk, be nice to her
4 be a man, but don't do the wrong male things when ur with her.
5 never ever act like stalkers do
6 care for yourself meaning shaving, perfume, fix skin problems etc. a guy looking like a drunk beggar is never being wanted by a girl

these are kinda like most important things to even get in to picture for a girl, but to ''get'' the girl like becoming a love couple u just need to have confidence

Find a way to talk to her without seeming so creepy, like if your extra curricular activties sometimes involve partnering, maybe you'll get lucky if she doesn't get someone. Or if she needs help, offer it. Start talking to her for a bit, then ask her out, if you really want to. Don't ask me how to do this part, because I can't think of anything for myself on this part. Been talking to the same girl for a year, and nothing.

Sorry, e-motions.

Sorry, bad pun.

Lulz

Wow I had a talk with a group of girls and it wasn't all that hard. I rather enjoyed it ^-^. I should talk with them more often... I saw my crush crying when I walked past her and I was like.. (Oh crap please don't hate me!)

OMG, you talked to gerls??? no wai!!!


anyway, I have a friend who I really, really like, but she only thinks of me as a friend. I just kind of cope with that. You probably will like a different girl in about a month, and considering ur probably not in your 20's or 30's, you dont have to think about finding a wife yet. Deal with it.

Dude!

If you walked past her and she was crying... you should take the opportunity and ask her if she's alright... instant ice breaker!
she'll get the idea that you care for her in no time, and I'm sure she'd love some comforting...

But I have to tell you something... Don't blow this problem out of proportion (for yourself). It's just a girl, a human being like yourself, talking to her shouldn't be a problem at all.

"Hi, I've been meaning to talk with you for a while now, but haven't got the courage of doing so... but now I'm overcoming my fears.... Hi! How are you doing?"

How would You react if she said that to you one afternoon? Even if you didn't have a crush on her, you'd be happy right? Someone who was a bit scared to talk to you? Kind of hard not to add 1 + 1...
I am pretty sure you wouldn't think (or say): "Hah, fuck you dipshit... LOLOLOLOL twat... idiot! LOL look at her lol hate her!! hahaha" right?

-insert psychological mirror here-

How would She react if YOU told her that? Even if she didn't have a crush on you, she'd be happy right? Someone who was a bit scared to talk to her? Kind of hard not to add 1+1...
Now, why ould she say (or think) "hah fuck you...."? She wouldn't! (unless she's a damn idiot!)

get what i'm aiming for here? I hope you do.




I found my girl in school, tracked her down and added her on a facebook-ish site... talked for a while... waved at each other in school, and finally one day i went to her and poked her, saying hi with a super blush. She turned around, looked at me. and turned away. then turned to me again, opened her mouth. and turned away again. and then turned to me once again, blushing like mad, saying hi. saw each other in school, and talked a bit, went out to drink hot chocolate in the winter afternoons, talking a bit about anything (Finding out she's a gaming manga anime nerd, whoop), and just talk about each other for a while.
Eventually, I kinda worked up my courage and said: I like you a lot.
then we hugged.

then we sat down.
and kissed.

and kissed some more.

we were together.

now that's 3 years and 1 month ago.

I feel the Though in all honesty I don't want her vag

But eventually you will

*frown* Honestly I don't know why... WHY guys like boobs and vagina's? I mean WTF It's like chinese medicine to guys.


( bad simile)

Issac: that was a hell of a good story. :')

@Kurado's Sword: I didn't mean it like that... I meant like: One day, you most probably want to have sex with that (or another) girl... not in a "OMGZ TEH BOOOBS!"-way... but.. in a loving way. you know... "the most intimate thing a couple may have, giving yourselves away at a most vulnerable state to care for each other"-way.... (you know what I mean)

@Costello: Awww thanks Best part is: 100% true

[quote name='Alexrose' post='1773165' date='Feb 14 2009, 08:42 PM']I know just how you feel.

I've felt like this for 3 years now for a girl in my school :/ . I would ask her out but:
A. It seems strange because I barely know her.
B. I wouldn't know what to say when I ask her out.
C. I wouldn't know where to take her, what to wear etc. etc.

First I added her on msn and we talked a lot, but then one day I was going to ask her out over msn, but I had a huge panic attack and couldn't do it, and I haven't talked to her since. It's been 6 months :S .

It's annoying, because I'm stupidly confident and, in fact, probably rather arrogant at times, so to me it's completely unnatural to be in a position like this.

But I did watch her in the common room a lot through lunch yesterday and she didn't get any roses (they sell them at our school on Valentine's day) or cards or chocolate, or on Facebook right now there's some app that lets you send Valentine presents, and she's not got anything off their either, so I could either chance talking to her today (but that would be both extremely obvious and awkward), or wait until her birthday, which is quite soon. My intentions would be so very clear if I talked to her today though >_> . It could go very cringe-worthy-ly.

I just wish she'd give some sort of sign. She doesn't act disinterested and when we used to talk on msn we got along well and we share a surprisingly lot of interests despite me being a gamer and her being popular <_< . When I was going to ask her out, she was also like.. being helpful with her replies to make it easier for me if you get what I'm talking about. But anyway, I think I'll just leave it and continue to be in inner turmoil until I go to University at the end of the next academic year.

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All I have to say is, don't do that to yourself, Be Strong!!! It might turn out well! Now ask her out and tell me about the outcome!^^

Wondering why I'm being so bossy? Because If you don't take charge of your life and try to achieve your dreams, you will never accomplish anything. Take me as an example, I'm trying really hard to accomplish my dream of being a surgeon. I study medical practices: I'M 14... NO-ONE does that at my age. I You will regret it later in life, If you just leave your situation at that.