Sleeping with a "mates" Ex?

So im feeling really guilty about last night! I ended up sleeping with a mates ex girlfriend. They went out for 4 years and only split up last week! The thing is hes not a close mate, just some one who hangs around in our circle. We talk and stuff but i wouldnt consider him a great friend. Hes more of a good friend of all my close mates and im worried that if it gets out alot of people are gunna be pissed off at me! I kinda regret it now and im well paranoid now lol. The thing is we just started tlking on facebook last nyt and she suggested we went for a drink to catch up cos ive got history with her from college. So i thought why not! We ended up drinking alot of cider then she offered me sex so its not like i came onto her! So we went back to my place and she stayed and alot of stuff happened. I woke up this morning feeling like a prick! The thing is my mates asked me where i went last night and i had to lie to them! She wants to come over tonight aswell?

Any advice? She wants to be fuck buddies.

Just im a guy so turning down sex is hard for me. But i usually have strong morals. Am i taking advantage or should i not worry as theyre not a couple anymore? She was kinda clingy this morning tho so eek!

Help? x

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Shabadage
[quote name='Alato' post='1582108' date='Nov 25 2008, 09:22 PM']Only last week? Sounds like a rebound.

I don't know if it's such a great idea.[/quote]

This man speaks the truth. Or she's going to throw the fact that she had sex with you right in her ex's face. Woman can be vindictive like that. I personally think she's trying to stick to him by having sex with one of his "friends"
 
mxk1000
dude. bang her like a salvation army drum.
if she put out that quick then things were bad. don't hang around though. let some other loser pay the price
 
M
You messed up by sleeping with the guy in your friends circle ex, I mean there are so many girls out their why would you choose that one. I know your just another zombie who can't resist when it's thrown at you no matter how morally wrong you might think it is. Anyways I wouldn't be surprised if her ex finds out what you did and punches you in the face, keep your guard up is all I can say.
 
FAST6191
I will leave others to dole out the relationship advice (let us leave it at my world view precludes useful relationship advice) but I will say I hope you learned another lesson:
cider, it is about the best beer goggles money can buy. If however you tell me it was courtesy of white lightening or similar know I will try everything in my power to get your strung up.
 
bunnybreaker
Hey, I see nothing morally wrong with this situation, but it is the kind of thing that people can and probably will get pissed off about. If you care about those people more than the sex, leave it alone and find someone else to fuck, though it isn't always easy, it's better in the long run not having to be secretive and stuff.
 
jaxxster
well, i ended up sleeping with her again last night...3 times! Im done with her now. shes got issues, very crazy girl! I dont wanna mess anything up anymore. Plus we both agreed that the sex was good and were leaving it as that.
 
T
this happend to me but it was my best m8 who was like a bro! it's not cool at all to be on the end of this situation. The first thing I wanted to do was kick the shit out of him but I calmed down later and decided it wasn't worth it.
 
jaxxster
im sure nothing will come off this. Even it gets out my mates will probs laugh. The other guy might be upset but hes not an aggresive type, hes a very laid back stoner. Whats done is done i guess!
 
spotanjo3
You felt guilt sleeping with a mates's exe girlfriend? Then you are stupid. If you knew it was wrong but do it anyway then you felt guilt ? it doesn't make sense. You knew and it is no excuse. Tsk tsk. You have no brain at all. :teach:

I never date or sleep with my mates's ex at all, never. I date and sleep with someone who was not my mates's ex at all. None because i was not stupid. I dont want to hurt my mates. They are important to me. You need to think. You are not think at all, jeez! You have no brain. I am shock! Oh man. You hurt your mates. Thats not right. You have no excuse.
 
Vulpes Abnocto
[quote name='RockmanForte' post='1585157' date='Nov 26 2008, 03:42 PM']I never date or sleep with my mates's ex at all, never. I date and sleep with someone who was not my mates's ex at all. None because i was not stupid. I dont want to hurt my mates. They are important to me. You need to think. You are not think at all, jeez! You have no brain. I am shock! Oh man. You hurt your mates. Thats not right. You have no excuse.[/quote]

Soooo....your position is "don't mate with your mate's mates"?

(What? Somebody had to say it.)

Meh, to each their own, I suppose.
 
jaxxster
fuck it, looks like im going down this road again tonight, i invited her over for some drinks n no doubt it'll end up the same. Guess every1 needs a booty call.
 

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