OMG MY FIRST CRUSH!!! WHAT DO I DO?

So I've been going to a tennis club every Saturday for quite a while now. And I was beginning to get bored when a new girl joined our class! She looks about 14. I think she's really cute and i want to start a relationship with her. But I didn't get a chance to talk to her yet! I've been reading up online for the past two years about how to approach girls but I can't really do anything much as we don't really have breaks where we can talk to each other. I know this may not be the best place to ask but I thought i would anyways. Any suggestions? Btw im in uk.

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Do the same thing you'd do to try to approach anyone else. Any relationship you'd have (platonic or romantic) would be significantly strengthened by having a bond with the person beforehand

Besides, by becoming her friend you'd get to know what she's like and if she's worth pursuing as a love interest past aquaintanceship. Just do NOT go into anything expecting any kind of treatment
 
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after press A, rotate the analog and press up up down down left left right right B A START+A
you will enter in the stage selec...... no wait...
 
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Contrary to popular belief, women aren't impossibly unapproachable.
Well until the age of 15-16 that's the belief most guys have.
Especially introverts, I can kind of see how some people have a hardtime approaching the opposite sex after being bombarded with "newage feminism" that they get scared.

An old fart like me couldn't careless if you identify as a firehydrate, a trainsexual (asdfmovie 10 joke for those who don't get it), or just being a normal teenager/person. If I need/just for fun want to chat, I will do it.

Then again, I'm a Swede so we try to tend to ourselves most of the time, because being social will eventually require you to give them fika.
 
throw food at her, if she doesn't run throw a rock, then food again then throw a ball.....goodluck
 
Embrace your inner beast. Show her your an animal, rawr. Woman love a man who's a freaky beast. Lots of beastyality chicks out there.

Make sure you study her intricate figure and curves, and work with it. Get vicious, get aggressive and pound your chest. Get tattoos, bring up your street cred, get a scar, and get lots of cash by illegal means.

Show her your a bad boy that doesn't play by the rules, not even your own.
 
He shouldn't do things with her that are not from himself. As soon as the girl finds out that, that is not the real him, I believe she could get dissapointed.
 
You don't just "start a relationship" with someone. Girls really dig it when you start out friends and get interested in her. You'll be a whole lot closer if fall for each other instead of "starting a relationship". Source: I've started relationships and started as friends and my longest relationship is the one I'm in now with someone I talked to as a friend and we had so many similar interests that we found ourselves in each other. Start that route with girls, and you'll both be a lot happier. You don't want to start a relationship and then find out she's a bitch.
 
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Or you could do something a normal guy does, treat her like a friend. Girls shouldn't be something you study about or read. They shouldn't be treated like something you could get with tips and tricks. They're their own thinking person, that wants the best for themselves, remember that.

You shouldn't be so quick to start a relationship. You might not like her. Get to know her first. And don't be all over her, give her space. Also don't get with her just for your own reasons of wanting to have a cute girl, that'll be selfish. Be with her because you both enjoy each others company and have like interests.

Make sure you pay attention to what she wants and respect her decisions, even if she rejects you. If you do ever get with her, Remember you both should be treated as equals.
 
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First of all, make sure it's actual love and not infatuation. I had that happen to me and trust me it didn't end well. Think about what you like about her and be specific, saying she's pretty and nice isn't one. If your sure it's love, then spend time with her and when your very close then tell her.
 
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Become her friend and eventually if you feel like she's attracted to you then you should ask her out.
 
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You either grow some balls and talk to her, or move on and focus on being a kid. Relationships in highschool are an absolute trainwreck. Though in saying that I know teenagers think they know best and will disagree because they're different or more mature.

Anyway it's very simple. You're in a club, and she's new. Just approach her when there's a moment that seems correct (taking a break or whatever). Say Hi, and start a conversation. It's really that simple. The hardest part is growing some balls to do it. But once you do it's pretty easy from there. Especially when you're meeting at a place where you know you both have a common interest to talk about without having to take shots in the dark.
 
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