Idk if this ever happen to you guys; maybe you guys can relate. Around 2 years ago, I met this girl. Ordinary girl, nothing special. That same night I invited her cousin (my ex-gf) to go drink at my house just to hang out. This girl came with as she wanted to drink. I said no problem. I picked them up and the night began. After 4 hours or so of drinking, stuff was going down. Basically, we had sex after all the touching and kissing. It felt weird, because I had a girlfriend in Ecuador (yeah, long distance, don't ask) and that relationship I had was very solid. I felt very bad to say the least. However, after that night, This girl didn't feel bad, and she admitted to me that she also had a boyfriend. I apologized to her telling her
"if you felt like I used you, I'm so sorry, I hope we can be friends, blah blah blah". She said it was cool. She was actually a laid back girl, not really uptight at all. Fast forward 2 days. She invites me to the park. We start talking and she comes up with hypothetical scenarios about us having sex. I felt uneasy. Don't get me wrong, sex is fun, but imo it should be done with the person you are in a relationship with. However, she looked like she wanted me, so I went for a kiss. This was the turning point in our "friendship". Later that day she went to work and I saw her the next night, and every night after that. We were having sex every night and we were just friends! After 2 weeks of that, I got used to it, and it became really fun. So much fun in fact, I was forgetting my girlfriend. Soon it was time for me to have a trip to Ecuador to see my girlfriend so I had to tell this girl that the sex was over.... and with that ended the so called friendship. When I came back from Ecuador, she didn't want to hang out anymore. Fast forward to today, I look on her Facebook out of curiosity (she posted something) and she had a 2 month kid. I ask her if that was her kid with her boyfriend. She told me no, and that was a kid she made from another friend she "hung out" with. I couldn't believe it. For some reason, that moment made me really hurt inside. Idk why I was hurt! She wasn't anything to me, and I felt like crying. I know now she likes to have sex with anyone. I still feel a little bad. I almost feel used. What fucking slut!
Sorry if it sounds like too much a story, it's just I just found out about her kid today as I woke up, and it has me down....
I guess life is all about ups and downs, huh?
I've learned from this NEVER to cheat on a girl again.
"if you felt like I used you, I'm so sorry, I hope we can be friends, blah blah blah". She said it was cool. She was actually a laid back girl, not really uptight at all. Fast forward 2 days. She invites me to the park. We start talking and she comes up with hypothetical scenarios about us having sex. I felt uneasy. Don't get me wrong, sex is fun, but imo it should be done with the person you are in a relationship with. However, she looked like she wanted me, so I went for a kiss. This was the turning point in our "friendship". Later that day she went to work and I saw her the next night, and every night after that. We were having sex every night and we were just friends! After 2 weeks of that, I got used to it, and it became really fun. So much fun in fact, I was forgetting my girlfriend. Soon it was time for me to have a trip to Ecuador to see my girlfriend so I had to tell this girl that the sex was over.... and with that ended the so called friendship. When I came back from Ecuador, she didn't want to hang out anymore. Fast forward to today, I look on her Facebook out of curiosity (she posted something) and she had a 2 month kid. I ask her if that was her kid with her boyfriend. She told me no, and that was a kid she made from another friend she "hung out" with. I couldn't believe it. For some reason, that moment made me really hurt inside. Idk why I was hurt! She wasn't anything to me, and I felt like crying. I know now she likes to have sex with anyone. I still feel a little bad. I almost feel used. What fucking slut!
Sorry if it sounds like too much a story, it's just I just found out about her kid today as I woke up, and it has me down....
I guess life is all about ups and downs, huh?I've learned from this NEVER to cheat on a girl again.
