Disputing the facts is irrelevant, as it is undeniably the case that Apple (alongside Facebook and Nintendo) have revolutionized the concept of gaming to "outsiders". iOS even gets a few multiplatform ports. Their SDK is better for developers with graphically intensive tasks, such as gaming or playing video, than most (even though it is in Objective-C which is widely regarded as being a little bit strange). iOS is also smooth and simple, if I did not categorize myself as a power user I would never have contemplated getting a different mobile platform.
Think about it this way, for years the best game you'd ever find on a mobile phone would be Snake. Then Apple come along and throw a proper development kit, as well as an application distribution system at a brand new popular phone, which doesn't require a degree in computer science to operate. Bam, instant success. Others tried, and failed both before and afterwards.
Once again, you talk about money, Just because Ipad/Iphone is the new fad, doesn't mean its going to last, I give 5 years maximum.
Netbooks didn't last 5 years
As for quality... oh please, I own an iPhone 4 and it's a product of GREAT quality. I've seen lots of other Android smartphones that my friends own (EVO 3G, Galaxy S, Galaxy S II, and so on), and the iPhone 4 looks like the one build with most quality. The glass feels solid, and the overall design is great.
The higher end Android phones, on average, last longer. They might not look as pretty, but with materials such as teflon and gorilla glass, they're more comfortable and less likely to break.
That said, software support with Android phones is awful, on average most OEMs drop support rather fast and although community support such as CyanogenMod might be nice, it's not really the same as a solid 2 (potentially slightly longer) years guaranteed.
I do not need to install custom themes all day long on my smartphone, that's why I went for an iPhone. I want games, Safari and a few other functions. As long as a product suits your needs, then that's the perfect product for you. Android has literally NO advantages over iOS for me. Actually, since I'm a pretty heavy mobile gamer too, iOS has craploads more games than Android has. So an iPhone is actually better suited for my needs.
Android by default does not support theming, what OEMs brand the OS with isn't really constituted as theming either. I just picked one theme and switched over to Zeam Launcher after reflashing a ROM. With upgrading versions of iOS, I've had to rejailbreak and to reinstall a bunch of stuff, sometimes with broken dependencies. I dunno, it's just simpler for me that way (and I'm not really a themer either, literally all I've changed is the positions of a few widgets, my colourscheme and my background).
Mobile Safari, as far as web standards go, is rather poor (although once again, it's extensions are pretty neat, they make developing a web-app a cinch. No need for standards-breaking CSS/JS tricks like with the other platforms). I personally prefer Dolphin as a mobile browser over all others (although I know that other people will disagree).
So stop judging books from their covers, and start taking things in perspective. Just because you don't like/own an Apple product, it doesn't mean it's a rip-off or that it's a bad choice for other people to buy them.
I own both an Android Phone, and an iPod. I use my phone more, but even then I'll admit the official support has been appalling (thankfully, CyanogenMod support is available). Android gaming is a joke, anybody saying otherwise (I'M LOOKING AT YOU GAMESTOP) is unfortunately wrong, and that'll always be the case as a side-effect of Android's modular design. Apple win on all efficiency fronts, because instead of providing a generic operating system leaving optimization and abstraction to the end user (in most cases that's the OEM), they actually design the OS for the hardware it's running on. Android development is quite literally backwards in comparison.
Aren't we all deviating away from the topic at hand though? We shouldn't be attacking/defending Apple's policies in this thread, it's no secret they're unfair. What nobody can deny is that they HAVE influenced gaming a lot over the past few years.