@m4xw I think I fixed the root cause. Patch provided if you want to apply. Testing looks good on my side.
(I knew I didn't lose my T&F skillz that quickly)
FYI: this patch should fix all cores; not sure if it's entirely related but even the retroarch menu seems to respond much better now
tldr; the current input mechanism only recognizes buttons pushed at the precise time they're polled resulting in potential lost input. This patch ensures buttons pressed leading up to the poll within a frame cycle are not dropped => much better responsiveness in games
EDIT: dpad was messed up on the first patch, 2nd patch fixes that!