just throw yourself into social situations. go to book clubs or other meetups at school and find people who enjoy what you do. learning how to adapt and be extraverted comes with the experience (and failure, too) of just talking to lots of different people
"Stop being self conscious" and "throw yourself into social situations" are two excellent tips! I only add this: don't think (unless strictly necessary) and act intuitively, naturally and spontaneously, without overdoing it.