asking out a girl fail

It is a fail, but not a bad one OP. At least you didn't get rejected

You're in middle school?

Get off the internet, it's a dangerous place, my pet.

I can't really tell what you're trying to say from this post.

I'm guessing, you're asking us, "How do you talk to girls?".

Basically, I thought I couldn't talk to girls all the way up until my sophmore year of high school. Now, I can talk to them fine, even if I like them. Before, I would try to plan out things on what to say, and it just wouldn't be a natural conversation. While there isn't an easy way just to learn how to do this, you have to just get more comfortable around people, and learn not to be nervous. My sophmore year, I was with this girl, and would get so nervous when I was talking to her, but now I'm with a different girl and it's so natural. It's just like talking to a friend. I guess I developed this because I have to deal with talking to random people at work all day.

Anyway, just try not to think of what to say, relax, and if it goes wrong. It's not a big deal, it won't affect your life (much) down the line.

[quote name='Xanthos' post='3625548' date='May 3 2011, 04:30 PM']Middle schoolers doesn't has the grammerz.

All I can say to you, though, is that you should just go for it. Pretend she is ugly as sin and far below your league for the few seconds you ask her out, then maybe it won't feel as hard![/quote]

I beg to differ.

[quote name='Ikki' post='3625549' date='May 3 2011, 04:30 PM']You're too young.

[quote name='ars25' post='3625502' date='May 4 2011, 01:02 AM'][quote name='personuser' post='3625497' date='May 3 2011, 03:58 PM']"Hi yea hi"

not the biggest fail in the book, IMO. She probably thought it cute/creepy, you being so nervous around her and all. If you said something like "YOUR TITS ARE HUGE, LET'S F*CK", that would be a bit of a fail.[/quote]
her tits aren't that big but they will grow bigger i seen her mom her mom's are qiute big so yea
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Yes, definitely too young.
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I lol'd quite hard.

Yes, you're too young. Try again at spelling "hormuns"?

[quote name='BloodyFlame' post='3625595' date='May 3 2011, 04:00 PM'][quote name='Xanthos' post='3625548' date='May 3 2011, 04:30 PM']Middle schoolers doesn't has the grammerz.

All I can say to you, though, is that you should just go for it. Pretend she is ugly as sin and far below your league for the few seconds you ask her out, then maybe it won't feel as hard![/quote]

I beg to differ.
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Ok so I've never tried THAT approach, but I've heard it works. I used to ask girls out very awkwardly but now I just become friends with them first, then I wait until I think it's a good time to ask them, or they ask me. Maybe it was always the obvious thing to do, but after having no social life before going to public school, I for the longest time had the charisma of a bulldozer and the social interaction capabilities of a chameleon.

This is the best thread I've ever set eyes on.

I don't care at all about age issues in relationships, but how old are you? Just so we can understand the situation better.

[quote name='Ssx9' post='3625652' date='May 3 2011, 05:32 PM']I don't care at all about age issues in relationships, but how old are you? Just so we can understand the situation better.[/quote]

Middle school I guess. That implies between 12 and 14 years of age (14 on the outside).

Just ask her, stand your ground, prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)

[quote name='Guild McCommunist' post='3625509' date='May 3 2011, 07:07 PM']I think the issue is that you're in middle school.[/quote]

[quote name='leeday100196' post='3625675' date='May 3 2011, 08:55 PM']Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)[/quote]
Well I go to an all boy school, too, but I've found a way to manage. Not that it matters, though. While I want to date, it's not top priority for me.

[quote name='awssk8er' post='3625593' date='May 3 2011, 03:59 PM']I can't really tell what you're trying to say from this post.

I'm guessing, you're asking us, "How do you talk to girls?".

Basically, I thought I couldn't talk to girls all the way up until my sophmore year of high school. Now, I can talk to them fine, even if I like them. Before, I would try to plan out things on what to say, and it just wouldn't be a natural conversation. While there isn't an easy way just to learn how to do this, you have to just get more comfortable around people, and learn not to be nervous. My sophmore year, I was with this girl, and would get so nervous when I was talking to her, but now I'm with a different girl and it's so natural. It's just like talking to a friend. I guess I developed this because I have to deal with talking to random people at work all day.

Anyway, just try not to think of what to say, relax, and if it goes wrong. It's not a big deal, it won't affect your life (much) down the line.[/quote]
i talk to girls casualy never rude oh though at times comes out i quickly apologize and they forgive me

[quote name='leeday100196' post='3625675' date='May 3 2011, 06:55 PM']Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)[/quote]
I didn't know such things existed, an all-boys school just sounds so.....gay.

[quote name='Mesiskope' post='3625687' date='May 4 2011, 03:01 AM'][quote name='leeday100196' post='3625675' date='May 3 2011, 06:55 PM']Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)[/quote]
I didn't know such things existed, an all-boys school just sounds so.....gay.
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It sounds more like like lots of ball stench.

[quote name='Mesiskope' post='3625687' date='May 3 2011, 05:01 PM'][quote name='leeday100196' post='3625675' date='May 3 2011, 06:55 PM']Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)[/quote]
I didn't know such things existed, an all-boys school just sounds so.....gay.
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well no parents put there children in them very often mostly for them to focus on there studies all boys schools are not that well known but all girls schools are more common

Tell her and go with the flow

That's what I did. It didn't work, but I ended up being more comfortable around her.

I still hit on her all the time

[quote name='Ikki' post='3625688' date='May 3 2011, 07:03 PM'][quote name='Mesiskope' post='3625687' date='May 4 2011, 03:01 AM'][quote name='leeday100196' post='3625675' date='May 3 2011, 06:55 PM']Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)[/quote]
I didn't know such things existed, an all-boys school just sounds so.....gay.
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It sounds more like like lots of ball stench.
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or the worst case of blue balls ever recorded in history, aside from gandhi.

[quote name='Mesiskope' post='3625696' date='May 3 2011, 09:10 PM'][quote name='Ikki' post='3625688' date='May 3 2011, 07:03 PM'][quote name='Mesiskope' post='3625687' date='May 4 2011, 03:01 AM'][quote name='leeday100196' post='3625675' date='May 3 2011, 06:55 PM']Still beating me, im in an all-boys school. it SUCKS to say in the slightest. All i have to worry about are my studies. AND im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with being gay...)[/quote]
I didn't know such things existed, an all-boys school just sounds so.....gay.
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It sounds more like like lots of ball stench.
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or the worst case of blue balls ever recorded in history, aside from gandhi.
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Well my school has 2 sister schools that visit alot, so it's not too bad.