Boy or Girl?

[quote name='Sheimi' post='3605127' date='Apr 22 2011, 05:23 PM']I have to say, girl. If you happy the way you are, then I support ya [/quote]

i agree! if you are happy with the way you are... smile!
btw: boyish girl...

Thanks for your family point of view.
I'm sorry about your brother's current rejection over you
I hope he will reconsider over time.

I hope you will have a lot of people caring for your health and mind, always keep good friends who believe in you close to you.
I think it's important to see other people accepting you to accept yourself. Psychology is an important part in your new body acceptation.

Like we says, A health mind in a health body. Something like that

Good luck with your hormones therapy.

I forgot to mention something, Penguin. After you're through with the procedure, put extra attention in what people say about your current personality.

This is something strikingly common when the hormone balance is nudged - you may turn into a totally different person and you won't really "notice" it unless someone points it out to you with a hammer.

Keep that in mind, because it may cause trouble in your future relationship. Inform your doctor about any behavioral changes, or better yet, take someone with you to tell him his second opinion.

There are various dosages of the hormones that do the exact same thing to the body, but as far as psychology is concerned, it's very individual and a doctor is in the dark every single time.

Same applies to contraception pills, dear ladies. I actually broke up with one of my past girlfriends BECAUSE she chose that contraception method. I was pro that, since it's the safest one there is, but I wanted her to change the pill to another one because she changed 180 degrees - became literally a monster I wanted to slaughter every.single.day in a time span of a week.

She sent me a text a year later that I was right and after she changed the pill, her state was far better, but you can't undo past now, can you?

In any case, I digress. Take care and put alot of attention in what changes in you appart from the body. Hormones are a double-edged sword.

TBH I understand being gay/lesbian or just acting a little out of gender, but I do not understand gender change.

Girls can be tomboys that doesn't mean they should gender change to a boy
and the same of boys vice versa.


Not a hate comment just stating how I feel.

[quote name='KingVamp' post='3605262' date='Apr 22 2011, 05:03 PM']TBH I understand being gay/lesbian or just acting a little out of gender, but I do not understand gender change.

Girls can be tomboys that doesn't mean they should gender change to a boy
and the same of boys vice versa.


Not a hate comment just stating how I feel.[/quote]
Its hard to understand for those not in the situation. Its just that transgendered people have such a strong feeling of wrongness about their own bodies that they want to change their bodies to become as close to the opposite sex as they can. Its something to do with brain structure. They've got the wrong brain structure for their body and as a result it just feels...off. Really off. Least that's the way I understand it.

[quote name='Jamstruth' post='3605265' date='Apr 22 2011, 12:07 PM'][quote name='KingVamp' post='3605262' date='Apr 22 2011, 05:03 PM']TBH I understand being gay/lesbian or just acting a little out of gender, but I do not understand gender change.

Girls can be tomboys that doesn't mean they should gender change to a boy
and the same of boys vice versa.


Not a hate comment just stating how I feel.[/quote]
Its hard to understand for those not in the situation. Its just that transgendered people have such a strong feeling of wrongness about their own bodies that they want to change their bodies to become as close to the opposite sex as they can. Its something to do with brain structure. They've got the wrong brain structure for their body and as a result it just feels...off. Really off. Least that's the way I understand it.
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This.

I could not have said it better myself.

And, upon request, here I am, dressed as a boy.

Something just isn't quite right to make you look all girl just base on the face.

Although that might be just me knowing that you was a boy.

To tell you the true, you just look like a tomboy now.

Did you said you have a mate? Does the person know about the change.

I can see it justified if you don't let your mate know.

I didn't know you could even get the bottom organ changed.

If you're talking about penis to vagina, it's easier to get done than you think. The difficult one is vagina to penis. Even then, you won't have sex cells of the opposite gender. It's tricky stuff.

[quote name='lilsypha' post='3603491' date='Apr 21 2011, 05:14 PM']*stuff*[/quote]
I'm mildly disturbed about how much you know on the subject.

[quote name='CrimzonEyed' post='3603557' date='Apr 21 2011, 05:51 PM']What if you are born woman in a mans body? [/quote]
That doesn't really happen; you're just a man.
Just like the way I don't have a Mac inside a Windows computer.

[quote name='lilsypha' post='3603550' date='Apr 21 2011, 11:49 AM'][quote name='Foxi4' post='3603540' date='Apr 21 2011, 08:45 AM']Remember though, born a man, always a man. Born a woman, always a woman. Physical appereance is one thing, biology is another.[/quote]

That may be your opinion, but it's not particularly welcome here or necessary in this thread. Please refrain from spreading hate towards ANY of of our members.
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It was his opinion and it was quite obvious to me that he wasn't spreading any kind of hate.
As it happens, I agree with him.

[quote name='ProtoKun7' post='3607653' date='Apr 23 2011, 11:36 PM'][quote name='CrimzonEyed' post='3603557' date='Apr 21 2011, 05:51 PM']What if you are born woman in a mans body? [/quote]
That doesn't really happen; you're just a man.
Just like the way I don't have a Mac inside a Windows computer.
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I disagree with both, but either one can be pretty unstable.

is this stickied on the front page? I could tell he's a boy in all the photos but if u wanna be a girl that is your choice i don't see a problem with it imho. just make sure u find one that wants this in a companion i'm sure there's plenty out there.

[quote name='ProtoKun7' post='3607653' date='Apr 24 2011, 01:36 AM'][quote name='lilsypha' post='3603550' date='Apr 21 2011, 11:49 AM'][quote name='Foxi4' post='3603540' date='Apr 21 2011, 08:45 AM']Remember though, born a man, always a man. Born a woman, always a woman. Physical appereance is one thing, biology is another.[/quote]

That may be your opinion, but it's not particularly welcome here or necessary in this thread. Please refrain from spreading hate towards ANY of of our members.
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It was his opinion and it was quite obvious to me that he wasn't spreading any kind of hate.
As it happens, I agree with him.
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Well, he expressed it as a fact if he didn't add an "IMHO" or something.

[quote name='Davi92' post='3607763' date='Apr 23 2011, 08:52 PM'][quote name='ProtoKun7' post='3607653' date='Apr 24 2011, 01:36 AM'][quote name='lilsypha' post='3603550' date='Apr 21 2011, 11:49 AM'][quote name='Foxi4' post='3603540' date='Apr 21 2011, 08:45 AM']Remember though, born a man, always a man. Born a woman, always a woman. Physical appereance is one thing, biology is another.[/quote]

That may be your opinion, but it's not particularly welcome here or necessary in this thread. Please refrain from spreading hate towards ANY of of our members.
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It was his opinion and it was quite obvious to me that he wasn't spreading any kind of hate.
As it happens, I agree with him.
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Well, he expressed it as a fact if he didn't add an "IMHO" or something.
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I'm pretty sure that whatever you do, you are still genetically a man(or woman). So an "IMHO" wasn't necessary here.

[quote name='pyrmon24' post='3607778' date='Apr 24 2011, 03:02 AM'][quote name='Davi92' post='3607763' date='Apr 23 2011, 08:52 PM'][quote name='ProtoKun7' post='3607653' date='Apr 24 2011, 01:36 AM'][quote name='lilsypha' post='3603550' date='Apr 21 2011, 11:49 AM'][quote name='Foxi4' post='3603540' date='Apr 21 2011, 08:45 AM']Remember though, born a man, always a man. Born a woman, always a woman. Physical appereance is one thing, biology is another.[/quote]

That may be your opinion, but it's not particularly welcome here or necessary in this thread. Please refrain from spreading hate towards ANY of of our members.
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It was his opinion and it was quite obvious to me that he wasn't spreading any kind of hate.
As it happens, I agree with him.
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Well, he expressed it as a fact if he didn't add an "IMHO" or something.
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I'm pretty sure that whatever you do, you are still genetically a man(or woman). So an "IMHO" wasn't necessary here.
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AFAIK there are women with XY chromosomes too, so you can't base on that.

[quote name='pyrmon24' post='3607778' date='Apr 23 2011, 08:02 PM']I'm pretty sure that whatever you do, you are still genetically a man(or woman). So an "IMHO" wasn't necessary here.[/quote]
Agreed. Imitation through surgery doesn't change your DNA. Stating what is fact does not mean you are spreading hate.

Good god this thread is popular eh? I remember when it first started in the EoF with everyone trying to figure out why you were gone from the temp.....

congrats doing that took real guts. id never be able to have that kind of work done on me not that i want it anyways

umm... girl?

Girl. Totally.

[quote name='penguindefender' post='3606142' date='Apr 23 2011, 12:36 PM'][quote name='Jamstruth' post='3605265' date='Apr 22 2011, 12:07 PM'][quote name='KingVamp' post='3605262' date='Apr 22 2011, 05:03 PM']TBH I understand being gay/lesbian or just acting a little out of gender, but I do not understand gender change.

Girls can be tomboys that doesn't mean they should gender change to a boy
and the same of boys vice versa.


Not a hate comment just stating how I feel.[/quote]
Its hard to understand for those not in the situation. Its just that transgendered people have such a strong feeling of wrongness about their own bodies that they want to change their bodies to become as close to the opposite sex as they can. Its something to do with brain structure. They've got the wrong brain structure for their body and as a result it just feels...off. Really off. Least that's the way I understand it.
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This.

I could not have said it better myself.

And, upon request, here I am, dressed as a boy.


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You look like a lesbian, so that's... a good thing I guess? XD