Well, when I was writing a comment to another blog post, I realized that my post about innate bisexuality was in a locked thread that I am too lazy to find, and thusly, it has been made apparent that I have to remake it. And since I have to go to work in half an hour and I don't want to, this seems like the perfect time!
Innate bisexuality is the idea that from birth everyone is bisexual, and from there we either learn sexuality, or (for non-openly-bisexual) only (or mainly) develop on only one side of the spectrum. Both Freud and Kinsey have made claims supporting the theory, but I'll ignore both of them because citing people will just bring into question their authenticity, and since I don't feel like doing research, yeah. Also Freud was wrong about A LOT of things, we just know him because he was also right about a lot.
Anyway, it only really makes sense that everyone is bisexual - men and women don't develop so differently that you are only attracted to one, otherwise the only thing you care about in relation to your partner are their tits, vagina, fat stores, and penis. Everyone wants their partner to be fit, with at least semi-toned muscles (not bodybuilder on either gender, for most), and a healthy look about them. Women know when another woman is sexually attractive, even if they don't want to go to tuna town, and (although less-so due to the fact that our culture has been focused on eliminating male sexuality since the '50s) men can realize when another man looks good, while keeping their butts well-protected.
Regardless, we don't stay in a relationship because of bodies, we stay because of the person inside the body, and that is something that has no regard for gender. Granted, women tend to be more insecure than men, with innumerable exceptions, but looking at most of the men on this forum, we're oft not so secure ourselves. From there, our personalities are formed, and two people with compatible personalities meet, and a relationship is formed. It's just that simple.
Sorry for rushing this, but I have half an hour to get ready and leave for work, so I gotta go. Later, mates!
Innate bisexuality is the idea that from birth everyone is bisexual, and from there we either learn sexuality, or (for non-openly-bisexual) only (or mainly) develop on only one side of the spectrum. Both Freud and Kinsey have made claims supporting the theory, but I'll ignore both of them because citing people will just bring into question their authenticity, and since I don't feel like doing research, yeah. Also Freud was wrong about A LOT of things, we just know him because he was also right about a lot.
Anyway, it only really makes sense that everyone is bisexual - men and women don't develop so differently that you are only attracted to one, otherwise the only thing you care about in relation to your partner are their tits, vagina, fat stores, and penis. Everyone wants their partner to be fit, with at least semi-toned muscles (not bodybuilder on either gender, for most), and a healthy look about them. Women know when another woman is sexually attractive, even if they don't want to go to tuna town, and (although less-so due to the fact that our culture has been focused on eliminating male sexuality since the '50s) men can realize when another man looks good, while keeping their butts well-protected.
Regardless, we don't stay in a relationship because of bodies, we stay because of the person inside the body, and that is something that has no regard for gender. Granted, women tend to be more insecure than men, with innumerable exceptions, but looking at most of the men on this forum, we're oft not so secure ourselves. From there, our personalities are formed, and two people with compatible personalities meet, and a relationship is formed. It's just that simple.
Sorry for rushing this, but I have half an hour to get ready and leave for work, so I gotta go. Later, mates!
