Sorry! My bad!
Alright, that seems to follow the correct pattern, running Fast Recovery should've booted you into CFW Mode - it's bizzare that it doesn't, but perhaps you're not selecting the reinstall option in Proupdate and the installer just turns off - I can't tell how many times I've done that before just because I was in a hurry. Re-try from the Proupdate stage, make triple-sure that the CFW is actually installing, when done use Fast Recovery and check if you've booted into the CFW via the system settings if VSH still doesn't pop up. If you are, all if well on the software side. Double-check that you don't have any plugins running - you can check that by having a look at the seplugins folder on the memory stick - it should have three text files - GAME, VSH and POPS. If VSH has anything with a 1 value, change it to 0 and save. Re-insert the stick and reboot the system, then run Fast Recovery. If it's still a no go and SELECT refuses to work, it's almost 100% a hardware fault and you'll have to double-check the ribbon connectors on the motherboard, so have a look at the guide that was posted earlier on how to open the system. Be
very gentle.
It does unless they're hard-coded into the registery, I think, so I want her to disable all Plugins and reboot just to be sure. It's been a while since I touched PSP modifications. I even busted out my old PSP-2000 just to help.