You mentioned a few times getting treated... let's use a diplomatic expression... in questionable manner.
I had my doubts, but unfortunately my usually very reliable instinct for realism failed me.
Don't give text on the internet too much importance when this happens. Some people just can't resist the urge to behave like that.
Of course I did. While it started somewhat constructive, it quickly went into shameful, condescending platitudes. My comment on this is my current status.