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Sono
Sono
It's okay to feel inferior in some areas as long as you're aware of it, and you can accept that (although not much should stop you from getting better than them).

If the feeling of inferiorness comes from self-belittling, then please stop, because it's unhealthy. You're doing bad comparisons, which leads to depression, and other serious illnesses.
Sono
Sono
Either find a better comparison candidate (as in, don't compare yourself to world's #1, which is hard-to-impossible to achieve), or stop comparing yourself. Everyone is unique, and that includes being good or bad in things.

Also, try doing teamwork. Try to do something where each of you is good in something and not good in the other's thing. That'll guarantee you'll not only feel superior, but also important.
Spring_Spring
Spring_Spring
well that's exactly what I am doing, and it feels like there is no stopping it now, its just getting worse and worse *at the moment*
Spring_Spring
Spring_Spring
how is "stop comparing" possible ;w; its an automatic thing at this point
Sono
Sono
This will sound harsh (I'm harsh), but if you're comparing yourself then that means you're (thinking you're) trying to make something not unique. Once you're (thinking you're) doing something unique, the comparisons should vanish.
Spring_Spring
Spring_Spring
well it isn't unique x3
Sono
Sono
Yeah, in that case I'm out of wisdom, as I'm guilty of this.
Although I do the opposite; instead of sobbing, I'm over-perfective, and waste a lot of time trying to perfect things >.<
Spring_Spring
Spring_Spring
but they are never good enough ;w; at least when you never feel it inside and always depend on the approval of others
Sono
Sono
Aha!

That's classic "I'm making something so I can get praise and feel better in this miserable life".
I'm not saying it's easy to keep yourself to this (and it isn't, even I'm having difficulties with it sometimes), but you need to make the stuff you make for yourself, not for others. You must make YOURSELF happy with it first.