Yeah I know what you mean, can be a bit overwhelming, but 1 thing I learned in life - just be yourself,don't try to be what people think you are / or what they want you to be.. And you wont go far wrong.. I'm Mark by the way ! live in Wales UK and see your from USA.. got some good friends I play online with from there... Usually arma 3, day -z , 7 days to die elite dangerous to name a few.. what you like?