make sure you are on the latest version of minecraft bedrock. with the patch installed it should not prompt you with nintendo at all, since the patch gets rid of that.
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👀 that is actually how i found out about this to begin with
the game probably has its own system to connect to the pc version, if none of it relies on communicating with nintendos servers and is simply p2p with the pc and the switch then it could work