hmmm I did think that would be the answer, serves me right for not parental controlling my XL (
I'm looking at an acekard 2i but its different to what i'm used to, software wise but hopefully more games will work too )
thanks for your replies
My daughter has deleted the dsi XL's internet browser, I can still connect to the internet to upload photos etc to facebook but the browser icon has gone. I know I should go to the shop and redownload it BUT I've currently got version 1.4E and it wants to upgrade me to 1.4.1 but i'm not sure...