kieb0t

Birthday
Apr 4, 2002 (Age: 20)
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
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  • KenniesNewName @ KenniesNewName:
    Ask any woman how she would feel if she never saw you again and stare at her to see how honest her facial expressions are about it women say shit just to make the guy look guilty
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    What you can do about it, Psionic, is maybe sit with her and calmly share how each action of hers made you feel, and ask her if there's anything she's missing from you or that's bothering her.
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  • KenniesNewName @ KenniesNewName:
    if you gave a woman your all and she wants to flirt with ex's that's on her and probably best to move on if she's just saying things to make you feel better
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Yeah she is a tough read,
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    Being so resolute will probably reduce the chances of finding a happy relationship. We must give people space to grow, feel, doubt, question, and we must stand by them, reassure them, love them. And they should do the same to us.
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    I said a million things about how I felt lol
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Yeah we are "starting fresh" her words
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    I am willing to forgive her, me that's the tough one, I failed hard on ohhh so many levels lol
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    No physical stuff, I never even raised my voice... But sometimes the calm words hurt the most
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    You were trying to inflict on her the pain you felt
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    For sure
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Although honestly, I doubt that was possible. I would rather have had my leg ripped off by a meat grinder than that.
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    If there was a choice I would have picked the meat grinder every time
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Twice on sunday
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    Maybe going for walks or a drive alone helps, as well as writing it down. Think about each action that you did and what led you to them. Recognise that how you felt is valid. Rationalize how you could act correctly next time. Then rationalize what you expect from your fiancee, and accept that she's still learning how you are, what hurts you and what makes you happy. Talk with her, be honest. And a relationship requires both people to make an effort; you should be flexible and understanding with her, but verify if the relationship is making you happy and improving your life
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  • KenniesNewName @ KenniesNewName:
    You can't always blame yourself if she is the one acting out
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  • KenniesNewName @ KenniesNewName:
    Freaking taco bell went there yesterday to get the Mexican pizza it was off their app look today it's there after already going yesterday
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    You should never blame yourself for the actions of others, or for your own feelings. You let those feelings flow and reach their own conclusion.
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Such great advice, I did start a journal and I walk miles every day, and the communication we are doing pretty good so far.
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    Yeah at first I did blame myself like I wasn't good enough
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  • Psionic Roshambo @ Psionic Roshambo:
    I did a lot of reading on this, most of it says it's over but slight chance at redemption lol
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  • KenniesNewName @ KenniesNewName:
    If you catch her doing it again probably best to move on
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  • KenniesNewName @ KenniesNewName:
    AmazonCommercial 2-Ply White Ultra Strong Toilet Paper, Septic Safe, FSC Certified Bath Tissue, 286 Sheets per Roll - 36 Rolls https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XYJWRTP/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_4M8WZ25P22JN9CGJAZAM I'd buy if Bezos face was planted on it
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    That's good, Psionic, keep going. And remember that you have value and deserve to be happy
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  • Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras:
    Kennie, why you'd buy toilet paper from Amazon and not the local supermarket, it escapes me
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    Dark_Phoras @ Dark_Phoras: Kennie, why you'd buy toilet paper from Amazon and not the local supermarket, it escapes me