make sure the memory card is in slot A
turn off nmm
enable no disc any other options that aren't needed.
also might want to download diosmios booter and use it and see if it might be your loader.
I have turned nmm off and it appears to work.
The first time I tried it the wii just shut off, for some reason. The second time the game has loaded past the menu and I've started playing.
I'm a little uncertain if this will work for good now, so I'm going to suggest keeping the thread unlocked in case something goes wrong.
Thanks a lot for all your help guys, I would have never been reunited with my favorite rpg if not for your support.