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NONONO! I meant like what hobbies/pastimes/activities/jobs/anything she has a deep interest in. Like what she likes above all else

ho yeah xD sorrs, huu, i already asked that, but maybe she was busy... she answer that she likes to play candy crush, cats. her family.. and her job, didnt answer much :/
i asked her "how about movies, or are you a reading person?" she replied neither...
sometimes we talk about home chores xD

i was never good (or liked) to make small talk, and i think this is a problem..

however she promissed one day we go hang out.. but i am waiting for when she is available

i believe i just am blocked becasue facebook. i had been with her 2 times (at driving school) and it was funny...
when i was in college, i remember adding school mates on facebook and either started to really hate them (so many bullshit generatos on facebook D:) or in facebook there was not interest in talking, however when i was with them phisically, it was different

btw a bullshit genetaor is that kind of facebook posts "how do you look when you are 80, or "heres your zodiac for today" or "heres your daily fake facts"
 

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It's funny I read through the topic and I realize the relation with my GF started this way :3

Like I said, take ypur time.

This is very sound advice, migles. I can assure you that most of our relationships started this way (or, at least, the more awkward of us *cough* VinsClones as a collective *cough*)
 
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ho yeah xD sorrs, huu, i already asked that, but maybe she was busy... she answer that she likes to play candy crush, cats. her family.. and her job, didnt answer much :/
i asked her "how about movies, or are you a reading person?" she replied neither...
sometimes we talk about home chores xD

i was never good (or liked) to make small talk, and i think this is a problem..

however she promissed one day we go hang out.. but i am waiting for when she is available

i believe i just am blocked becasue facebook. i had been with her 2 times (at driving school) and it was funny...
when i was in college, i remember adding school mates on facebook and either started to really hate them (so many bullshit generatos on facebook D:) or in facebook there was not interest in talking, however when i was with them phisically, it was different

btw a bullshit genetaor is that kind of facebook posts "how do you look when you are 80, or "heres your zodiac for today" or "heres your daily fake facts"

Yeah, e-messaging tends to kind of detract from a relationship. Have you tried either Skyping or calling? That tends to feel more natural
 
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This is very sound advice, migles. I can assure you that most of our relationships started this way (or, at least, the more awkward of us *cough* VinsClones as a collective *cough*)

other funny fact: we are all toon link clones here, having experienced similar life.
if everyone take their time, I promise you all you will have you chance.

Myself I feel really lucky.
 

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Yeah, e-messaging tends to kind of detract from a relationship. Have you tried either Skyping or calling? That tends to feel more natural

i kinda thought about it, but i feel its too soon, i wanted to go out with her first..
for skype i have no camera, i guess i could try to voice chat with her.. but still soon D: :scared:
also for phone calling, i have an ole nokia phone, and we are from different networks.. i can't spend money to call her :/ i am really short on money
and i am kinda trying to save for when we go out (we probably will go to shopping mall) so i can buy her lunch or something that she likes if we get along :D
 

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Hymen, Cum on, no sects jokes, this is EoF frfr

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I would argue that point, there are a lot of situations in which guys are more difficult than girls are. It depends on the people in question, I suppose

Yeah, maybe :P
 
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hey people! help me being super funny :wub: i am blocked on what should i answer...

so my friend (the girl i am talking on this thread) randomly posted a picture on my fb and commented "miguel, she is calling you :D"

picture:
22285_1609821219253107_8043389228447754715_n.jpg

caption says "did anyone seen miguel?"

i need a comeback comment or funny picture to answer, (not a gif pls)
i should do it by myself but i am not in a good mood (i told her about the bad mood, and promissed make her a surprise later)
 

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I would argue that point, there are a lot of situations in which guys are more difficult than girls are. It depends on the people in question, I suppose

Every problem can be solved with videogames!
 

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hey people! help me being super funny :wub: i am blocked on what should i answer...

so my friend (the girl i am talking on this thread) randomly posted a picture on my fb and commented "miguel, she is calling you :D"

picture:
22285_1609821219253107_8043389228447754715_n.jpg

caption says "did anyone seen miguel?"

i need a comeback comment or funny picture to answer, (not a gif pls)
i should do it by myself but i am not in a good mood (i told her about the bad mood, and promissed make her a surprise later)
Mama? ... mama!?
 
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