Stealth servers just cost a fuck ton of money.
Idk if you want to spend 100's on some service that some guy set up just to make a profit.
Even if you get a "lifetime subscription" there's no guarantee you'll be on Live for a long time.
Not to mention that the server owner can get all the cash and move off, leaving you in the dark.
I'd personally say get an ODDE but eh, flashing still works.