I'll answer here and tell what I (my own opinion, doesn't involve other moderators) think of all these forum's drama.
I'm tired of doing the police with uneducated kids fighting each other and remove always the same type of posts.
I usually let people speak their mind. It's a forum where you can speak freely, for good and bad result. it's the user's action which determine the forum's reputation (and you know which reputation it has).
Users only get what they deserves. If they are not capable of accepting someone providing his time and work freely to other people, without calling him suspicious, attacking him based on previous work and reputation, then it's not the moderator's job to educate these kids. At least, I don't see my position as someone who need to tell users what they NEED to post in order to help developers and hackers to achieve their goal. I'm not their mother, I'm not a firewall nor a spam filter. If we want a clean forum with only developers posting, then all the posts would be moderated before being made visible.
I moderate the forum for the forum, I remove illegal links, warn on wrong behavior, insults, etc., but I'm not here to take the hands of users to explain which word to use and that if they are not friendly they will be punished. I'm not deleting posts for developers to complete their project without clash, they don't need this forum for their project, they post here in the first place because they want to share, but if you can't accept it then they stop doing it. Do not think people owe you things and are forced to post things here or provide them to you at all (here or another site).
3DS and WiiU section is filled with kids who can't wait and appreciate other peoples work, only ask the same question over and over, troll, post crap and offtopic everywhere without caring for their comrades who would like to follow a specific subject. The only result you get is that people who can achieve what you really seek are leaving you behind because they don't have faith in you anymore, they don't have interest nor desire to release anything for ingrate people like you.
You build your own situation. If you want things to change, start changing your behavior.