As weird/sad as it may sound, the thing that has had the most influence on me is being bullied. It was hell, I've been spat on, pushed down the stairs, insulted, laughed at, been threatened, excluded, etc... I tried talking to the teachers and to my parents but it didn't change. The teachers didn't do anything.
It made a dent on my self esteem that I think is never going to go away. I lost all confidence in myself and I started to fail. Not because I couldn't, but because I didn't believe that I could do it. I stopped believing in myself, it was like being dead but living on. I lost a lot of friends because of a certain test, they couldn't continue studying where I did. They were like my last connection to true friendship and I lost that too. I was alone.
A few teachers convinced me I couldn't pass that test some friends failed and I didn't even try to enter the test, so I repeated the year at music school. Then when after the holidays I went back, this other teacher said: Why are you here? You could have passed. And I realized that it wasn't only the test, it was me. I didn't pass because I didn't at least try to take it on.
A few years later...
I sometimes still have trouble at school, but now I stand up for myself a lot more. It looks like I've been tagged as a "rebel/rough" than as a "weirdo". Sincerely, I still think that the popular kids think I'm weird, but I couldn't give a shit about them, I even slapped one in front of everyone when he tried to steal from me. I'm very different to everyone else, and I have to be careful about that because I don't want too much attention on myself/being bullied again.
I've passed that test. And not only that, now I play electric guitar apart from piano. I failed this years piano (4/10) but did very well on everything else (Musical theory, singing, rhythm (sp?), dictation etc 9/10). I plan to do 2 years in one to catch up.
I still have problems with my friends, but thats because their a lot more childish than me. Pain made me grow up very very fast.
And I never give up, you can ask anyone that really knows me that I've been through a lot. Recently the death of my uncle and I might still have low self esteem sometimes, but I always fought back, and thats why I'm still here. I know that if I put my 100% into something I can do pretty much anything, it's just about how much you want to work. I'm very stubborn about my beliefs, I guess thats another reason why they couldn't kill my personality totally.
So there you go. I'm actually glad that I was bullied. It changed me, and I want to believe it's for the better. From an innocent, a bit too full of herself, a little selfish, but other than that a nice kid, to a still very naive but kinda wise in her own weird way, a lot more humble but scarred and that has discovered that helping other people actually makes her happier than having everything to be perfect, because she isn't perfect.
Edit:
Looks like everyone is posting about games and music, so there ya go:
Games: That has to be when I first played Mario on my new game boy pocket when I was little lol.
Music: I always liked music, I listen from classical to rap to rock to electronic, anything, but the thing that influenced me, thats a part of me, well, thats MAKING music.
As for tv: No lagman, it's not Loving Annabelle, it's Willow and Tara from Buffy the Vampire Slayer
. Made me realize that well, what I am isn't a bad thing.