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Well I have basicaly been thinking of this for hours of days of weeks and months even,
and I have finally mustered up the courage and strength to say, I am gay.
Yes I know this is the internet and hardley anyone cares and would probally say, we dont care
or saying it online is easy, well maybe for some but for me right now writing this is making me shake,
I love this community like a family and for me to say this here is like saying it to my family.
I havnt told anyone about it in my family yet but right now even though Im scared of what you might reply to this,
Im really releved as it were, I feel a sort of weight of my back.
Now you might be half way about to write, "good for you, we care why?" or something along those lines,
but quite honestly this is for me to finally be true to myself and feel good about myself.
And please Im pretty fragile right now, Please be thoughtfull and not thoughtless.
Thank you for taking your time in reading this.
 

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Being gay is cool but why is your gender set to female?
Don't do that lol. Gay or not, you're a guy.

EDIT. ... Unless you're a girl and you're gay. Then disregard.
/just woke up 10 minutes ago
 

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While it's my hope that in the not too distant future, coming out will universally be a "so what" inducing event, that day hasn't arrived. So, good for you. Good luck with your family, and be patient, some people take a little while to come around to the concept, but that doesn't mean that they won't.
 

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Thank you everyone
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The question whether Im a guy or actualy a girl is unknown you you
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But I appreciate the love coming from everyone
 

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I see that you are 17 on your profile so don't tell your mates, not even your closest friends. There was a guy at my school who came out and people started avoiding him, I'm not an expert by any means but people will start rumours, not wanting to party etc
 

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Chikaku-chan said:
Thank you everyone
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The question whether Im a guy or actualy a girl is unknown you you
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But I appreciate the love coming from everyone
Btw we know you are a guy =) Kinda obvious unless you did some kinda of hormone operation and that...
 

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DarkStriker said:
Chikaku-chan said:
Thank you everyone
happy.gif

The question whether Im a guy or actualy a girl is unknown you you
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But I appreciate the love coming from everyone
Btw we know you are a guy =) Kinda obvious unless you did some kinda of hormone operation and that...

Haha dang it
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I see what you did there
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Who says Im not a cross dressing girl?
Or
Crossdressing guy?
wait second option seems weird and doesnt affect my gender
 

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I remember when I told that I was gay, my mother was pretty much quiet, she was shocked. My father was stupid by saying this: YEAH I did know this for years! WTH?! You could not know that
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Then my father asked if I fell in love with a certain person and he was fucking right...

*sigh* it is getting hot here ya know!

Also half of my family does not know anything yet. Including my grand parents. I don't want to shock them
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Chikaku-chan said:
Thank you everyone
happy.gif

The question whether Im a guy or actualy a girl is unknown you you
wink.gif

But I appreciate the love coming from everyone
I saw the pic you posted in the "temper pics" thread, you're a guy.

I'm glad so many people are not shy about their sexuality, though.
 

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Be proud of acknowledging that you're gay, and be proud to be able to come out.

If your friends start avoiding you after coming out, they're a dick and not your friend.
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s4mid4re said:
Be proud of acknowledging that you're gay, and be proud to be able to come out.

If your friends start avoiding you after coming out, they're a dick and not your friend.
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but if they are a dick you could argue.... ah never mind.
 

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