Why do you think so?
And what is the topic now?
I have seen this go from the Boston PD preventing a massacre, to actual theories that it was all a bad joke from these two kids, to a discussion on right to carry and own firearms by common citizens... to... well, where are we now?
What is the topic you wanted to have a mature discussion on?
It's not so much that I desired to have a mature discussion on a particular topic as much as my preference that discussions on serious topics in general be mature. This thread was going to inevitably become about gun control as that is how this always goes down, but this just does not seem to be a forum capable of having a mature discussion on that topic.
On the one hand, trust me regarding this, people from outside of America are kind of freaked out (or at least somewhat scared) with this concept of common citizens carrying firearms. That can be good, or bad, or whatever, but it is true.
I've noticed. The same is also true of many in America who have never handled a gun. Sometimes all it takes to get someone to stop crusading against guns is to put one in their hands and teach them how to use it properly. It loses its mystique and the reputation built up for it in the media. I can't count the number of times I've seen the cliche on TV and Film where a character proclaims something to the effect of "don't worry, it's empty" and then the gun goes off.
Also I think I went OT with this, but regarding the role and significance police has in the mind of the common citizen, I speak from my own experience, based mostly in what I see in Argentina, not in the USA, but it matches what I listen from people in the USA.
As I have no personal experience regarding the situation in the USA other than news and talks with third parties, this should be taken with a grain of salt.
I don't think you went OT with that, really, as the police were brought up by Foxi (if not earlier) and then addressed by myself.
On the subject of police, most of the police we have are good people. My own personal experiences with police have been positive. The school resource officer at my middle school took me out of lunch one day to show me the M16 he had in the back of his squad car from his SWAT training. My car once broke down on a busy road and a cop came along to help me get my car off the road (which I couldn't do myself while the car was still moving because the other assholes on the road kept illegally passing me on the shoulder which prevented me from getting over and out of the way). Then there was the time my car died (for good
) on another major road (I did manage to get to the shoulder that time) at around 1:30 in the morning, and a cop swung by and gave me a lift to a convenience store so I could pick up some antifreeze in the off chance that coolant could get my car running again (since the engine had overheated and the coolant reservoir was empty). There was the time just last winter when the cops were called on my because I was playing pond hockey (one of those nosey neighbors out there who thinks they know what's best for us). After a bit of discussion, they were willing walk away and not check the sign near the pond to see if it says to stay off the ice (which it does), and just asked us to try to be quieter on the ice to keep anyone else from calling them about us.
Anyways, my point is that most cops here are good cops that put service to the community first. It's a big deal to us when the police abuse their power, and it's a part of our culture to put it out there when they do in the hopes that we can get better. I guess a side effect of that is that the world sees our dirty laundry and paints a picture of us based on that, but so be it.
I don't know if any of those comments of mine offended you, or if you were offended by something else. But at least I don't think my comments are in the proportion to say I derailed the conversation into something where it "is not a place where people are willing to have a mature discussion on the topic".
I wasn't really referring to you (although I think the "Almighty America" comment was a bit unnecessary), but rather the individuals out there resorting to Ad Hominem remarks with offensive and ignorant caricatures of Americans.