Everyone in my class hates me

First, it is my personal problem so don't read if you don't care.

So i became a 10th grader just 2 weeks ago. I was in class 10a3. Everyone was strange to me. After just one day, people starred at me with a scary look.
Today someone in my class insulted me, then some one else kicked me even though i didnt fight or do anything. This world is full of selfish people. No one is on my side

Now I don't think i can survive 3 years at school.

I hate everyone in this world now.They don't care about people who don't befenit them. That's how us human are !!


update: they will do mass fake report on my FB :'(



@LittleFlame not that. i dont talk about religion. N i dont know these people before so i cant find what did i do wrong

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Just smash "Report Abuse" and they'll get arrested, like those cyber-bullying videos show. In all seriousness, report them to teachers, principals, and police if needed.

Unless this shit's fake...

EDIT: You transferred schools... ok... whatever you say fam.
 
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As soon as I got into middle school, I wanted to be popular and have lots of friends. To do that, I decided to try and be the funny kid. Being a hyper little 5th grader, I kicked my legs in my chair sometimes. I would bounce around and would look like I was doing sexual things all the time. The only person I hung around was my male best friend and so lots of kids called me gay often. 5th grade sucked because of that. In 6th grade, I (mostly) stopped acting like an idiot and made lots of the friends I have today. Looking back, it might've not been as bad as I remember, but I completely changed after 5th grade. I wore plain colored clothes so nobody would care about my appearance and I hid my interests from everybody. I also kept to myself and had no social skills at all. I did all that because, back then, I had no clue why everybody seemed to hate me when I just wanted to make everybody like me. Moral of the story is figure out why everybody hates you, or it could tear you up and change who you are a long time from now.
 
@TheGrayShow1467 Not yet. But i felt like other class people dont hate...
But for some reason i caused a fight between my friends and my classmates and even the teachers are too scared then they just ignored.
I was protected by some 12th grader who i dont know before. They said they were friend
I did not know there were so many faction in a highschool.
Why do people divide and fight? can't they live in harmony?
 
@Boogieboo6
Yes you did the right thing. I am still finding the reason why they hate me even at the first day
 
Try adapting to the hate.. If you find people that appreciate who you are among the hate, then chances are they'll be good friends
 
I understand you. Something similar happens to me. My classmates doesn't hate me, but they avoid me. It's strange because outside the classroom I have a lot of friends of other generations or places. I've always asked why it happens, but it's a terrible mental exercise and you end being an slave of theirs. And that's not fair. Be yourself, and don't change to be accepted by false friends. Change to be a better person. Change to be someone you would feel proud. If they don't care about you, don't care about them. Just avoid them.
 
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Even the dude bullied me became my best friend.
But i don't know why my new classmates are acting like they are just playing me. The other class person just told me not to change. They sayd I am an OK person already though some times i say stupid things but that is ok
 
Everything will seem difficult at the beginning(As your new to the class).Try to get some friends at your school and tell your problems,ask their experience.Don't become angry,peace.
 
@hairpro.. why dont you answer the question i asked a couple of time: ARE YOU TROLLING US? you really seem to be trolling and you dont even answer when i ask you.. ..answer clear right now so i can leave this post go to waste once and for all lol.. i tried to help you when you talked about your issue...but then you made no sense amd said you throw garbage in grabe and are rude with admin on other forums.. you seem like trolling..you are abusing of our empathy!... answer this or suck your shit.. END IT RIGHT NOW, ARE YOU TROLLING?
 
^ indeed i do lol .. its just that if the story is true i will try to help..because its an issue lots of people have when younger and not enough people care of solving those attitudes.. but if he's trolling, well, its abusing of our empathy.. so, my tought, is that if he's not a 'manipulator' in real life and have an onze of 'good person', he will be honest once and for all :P
 
Change your mind:
"Everyone hates me":You feel sad.
"I hate everyone":You feel better,because there is no mistake by you and the wrong is committed by them..
 
Change your mind:
"Everyone hates me":You feel sad.
"I hate everyone":You feel as normal,because there is no mistake by you.
 
Not all humans suck, just... a bad percentage of them do. :unsure:
Is been this way even before most of us was born. before even 1900. But Crystal is right, most do that, i dunno why, dominance thing, empowerment, fear of losing a position or whatever, is like some kind of bullying and i think we all dislike that. Is even worst if you encounter this kind of behavior early in life, and when you try to make friends, you have hard time trusting people and it leads to conflict and other possible problems.

Is even worst if you personally take things the wrong way even if unintened by people. For example you always feel disrespected when people talk to you maybe cause how or what words they use to communicate, and can leave bad impressions on them with how you preceive them. Is a complex situation but i guess with proper support it helps somehow. Just need to try i suppose.:unsure:
 
Tell them to piss off or else you'll start breaking faces? Or do what I did when I was your age. actually hurt one of them by smashing their face into a desk for bullying you. But if you did something to deserve this treatment, you can always make it right by apologizing to everyone or transfer to a different school where no one knows who you are.
 
@cornerpath I just wanna keep peace so I don't want to fight. I'm used to let people hit me and I do nothing. They can't actually hurt me and I think if i fight back I don't need more than 30 second to put all of them into sleep
 

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