Do you guys believe in love?

i don't belive in the love between mom and son, maybe father son.
mom doesn't care much.
then real love like you and a partner? well can be real, it's just what you make of it.
you can make it real (though not like in disney).

It is not a question of belief .. Love is real.. It might not happen to everyone, but if it happens to you , you'll feel it.. I've been with my gf for over 3 years, and my heart still flutters when I think of her.. I wish it happens to all of you.

Very good opinion, so how you make it good? is there a secret or someting? haha

Well, part of the secret is not to let yourself focus on physical attributes. Of course we'd all want the hottest looking person out there. Looks aren't all. You should focus more on common interests, the way the person treats you and others, what that person can bring to your life. There is no real secret.. If it happens to you , you'll just feel it. That feeling like you can really be yourself with that person around you, that you can see yourself with that person still in your life years from now... Just be yourself, kind , generous (not talking about money , but about what you're willing to do for the other) and don't rule out someone because that person isn't a perfect 10 on your scale of looks. Of course , it won't ever work if you don't find the other person attractive.. But for me, attractiveness is not only looks, but what that person is as a whole.. I've met ugly looking people that were very attractive because of their attitude and many hot looking people with a terrible attitude that weren't attractive at all.

Don't rush love , but don't give up either. Oh , and be respectful.

obviously everyone has their own interpretation of "love" but i feel it probably used to exist and certainly does for most people with their children, but its been watered down so much that it will probably never be as strong for the majority of people as it once was.....seems like its just a side effect of the change in culture, everything in modern culture is treated as disposable, including relationships, i guess it kinda falls on the person "falling" for someone too, i think if most people acted a little more hesitant and aware they would save themselves a lot of heartache by simply honestly taking a look at their potential partner and honestly asking themselves if they think this is the kind of person who wants to settle down long term or is just willing to settle until something better comes along.

as with many friends who suffered from "bad breakups" the telltale signs are usually there from the start, track records and stuff make up a lot of that, the saying a leopard can't change its spots comes to mind, if your new partner has a track record of jumping from relationship to relationship leaving a trail of destruction........don't fall for your brain trying to convince yourself that you will be any different, not saying 100% write them off, but just be very slow going into any sort of relationship if your worried they seem like the kind of person who will get bored and abandon ship at any given opportunity......unless that's what your looking for, in which case pound away, just know your building up your own track record in the process

Yes love exists
but not for everyone unfortunately

Very good opinions, thanks you all! i will keep all you said in mind.

Strong, weak, electric, gravity.
Those are the forces of the universe.

As a useful addition (at least as far as perpetuation goes) to chemical life with a high energy/resources cost and low reproduction rate in an otherwise intelligent species. Sure.

Beyond that. Meh.

What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more

Love, and happines are just a lie we tell ourselves to escape the shittiness of reality.

i dont believe in romantic love. I have a partner, we love each other, we have children, but we are more like the best of friends. lol

Family/Friends sure but a romantic love is complicated. You get feelings for him or her yet spend too much dealing with mind games on trying to figure them out.

Imo the only way to be respected is to pretend to be something you're not, and then only way to be loved is to be respected.

Maybe it's a bleak mindset, but let's be honest.
If you are willing to call two masked people kissing "love", then you are just kidding yourself.

@MasterJ360 and @Paolosworld when you're in love for real there are no mind games or needing to hide things from each other. You each accept the other person for who they are and love and respect that person. You feel no need to hide anything and can share everything and don't feel judged, only understood and loved. So yes love exists and it is wonderful but maybe you haven't experienced it yet

@Quantumcat Can't say that I have my relationships never reached the engagement phase

is the love of a mom for his son, nothing more.

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Sweet home Alabama

Love is real, but that doesn't mean it's always easy. As expressed by a lot of lonely nerds in this blog. People also constantly confuse infatuation with love which is a huge mistake pretty much everyone makes. People also don't realize the biggest hurdle of a relationship is being able to put up with eachother long term. We're all unbearable human beings in some way, which is why finding compatibility is that much harder.

When you find the perfect person for you it's very obvious. It sure was for me when I met Chary.

Not until I met your mom

I believe in love, although most people seem to mistake lust and passion for love more often than not, which in turn leads to many failed relationships.

I believe in love. It's easy to think you experience it, and it's easy to be blinded by attraction.
But when you finally experience it, it's unlike anything you've ever felt before.

Thats stupid question, to be honest. Love is part of us. It is eternal love. The hate is also part of us too. Nothing to believe in love or anything. It is just there and part of us. We can't deny it. It is really silly question. No question about it. It is just part of us. Without it, we are not mean to be human being and we mean nothing at all. With it, we are something marvelous creatures ever created.

I do love people all over the world even if I don't know them. I care and respect one another even animals. Its part of us. Not just love mom to her son or love dad to his son at all. We are supposed to learn to love ANYBODY. SAD, not everyone feels that way. They are NOT HUMAN being at all. For me, I love everyone in the world because we are all same human being and we are the family, PERIOD! SMH. Really stupid question. @_@