I am so fucking pissed right now.

My mother keeps blaming me for shit I didn't do and then badmouths me to her friends when it was my brother. Then she asks why I always look so unhappy. God I just want to move out already to see who she will blame next when I'm not here. inb4 she calls me then blames me. She even says I act like my Dad so if she thinks so I'll sure act that way. -_-

I can actually see why my dad hates her
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Rip, all I can say is don't start being like your dad, it'll make it worse
 
Aw I thought we were going to get a drunk rant.

Anyway it appears you are in the vaunted position of being the one blamed for everything. Be assured that your siblings are grateful. If you know it was not you then just roll with it, unless you are being made to clear up I guess.

Also bloody hell are you responsible for the extinction of the dinosaurs, the spoiling of the milk, the breakup of the beatles and my backache? That is some serious naughtiness there.
 
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If I recall correctly from your other posts, your almost old enough to be on your own anyway. So fuck it. Just keep your goals in mind and push yourself towards them. Assuming that its just regular teenage issues with your parents, you'll realise that drama from other people really have no more impact on your life then you allow. Try to see that most of the issues you're dealing with now aren't really that important in the big picture. If you get blamed for some childish stuff your siblings did, show her that you are too busy and mature to entertain those accusations.

I know you didn't ask for advice, but I think just about everyone has dealt with this sort of thing. And from my experience, my parents had to accept and respect my independence as an adult once I had the proper view on life.
 
lol i got a handful of assumptions/advice

from the sound of your post it sounds like your dad and your mom are no longer together if this is the case (and you truly act like your father) then your mother may be unable to handle that or maybe even resent you (or at least who you remind her of)
(also assuming she is the slightest bit understanding) literally tell her how she makes you feel . . . if she shows remorse then you two have something to work on/through and should discuss the issue further
. . . but if she is like my mom she will laugh at your feelings then my advice is to leave (assuming you are old enough to get a job)
not to go too far into my own history (its your thread) but i was kicked out the house when i was 17 (and still in high school mind you) and it (obviously) sucked now 15 years later when i look back at my previous situation . . . i only wish i had gotten out of that house sooner

also hate is a strong word . . . and if left to fester it only gets stronger
 
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I'm so sorry man. We all can't comment much without knowing your story, but if you do feel the need to talk, my pm's are open for you :)

I moved out in May, and parents haven't stopped tormenting me over my decision to move out. It's shitty
 
I am sorry about your suffer. Your mom is very wrong and your mother should be ashamed to be mother. She supposed to be motherly with alots of love and respect. She shouldn't have told her friends about you. It's so cold! Thats disgusting!!

She acts like she is a teenager. Shame on her. That's why I have seen many teenagers wanted to get away from parents because of their bossy around and they thinks that they are better than their children. Sorry about that. I had the experienced with my mom (mostly).
 
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I had a similar experience with my mother and dad.
Being an only child, i was the ''target'' for everything that happened.
Sometimes she was good, other times she sounded like an /bleep!hole
One day:
~Oh i'm glad i have a son like you
The day after: ''Stop playing videogames, get some p####''
She lost the job? I was the problem
I have a different opinion? I'm an idiot
I was really pissed off, i got a job and escaped to a rental house.
Sometimes (many years passed) we still speak again, i can't bring myself to hate someone, even my parents.
 
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When i'm angry, my mom always does that thing that annoys you more.

"Oh my god i have to restart? ARGH!"
"Whos a crabby-pants"
"Stop it."
"Dont be like that."
"Well stop it and i wont be like that"
"Don't be rude."
"-_-"
 
Tell her to stop mixing cuntcrete ;o;

Seriously tho, just ignore it.
Keep on focussing on moving out.
Let her whine.
 
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jesus you could try to reach your mum. Think about what made her angry with you. Why does she do it? go to the root cause of your turmoil an remedy that, theres no point in shunning your mother or showing you hate her. It'll just make things worse. My advice is, find out what your issues are and fix them, soon.
 

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