[Solved, But will take suggestions] So my fiancee wants to get back together with me

Yes, I was engaged with my girlfriend (ex-fiancee) until she took a joke the wrong way and ended the engagement Which left me depressed for two weeks. Now her boyfriend broke up with her and she wants to get back together. What should I do ?

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It depends on the person, but, most of the time, if a person has broken up with someone, this means the relationship was not going to work out anyways. Personally, I wouldn't do it, but, if she means that much to you, gonna have to go and agree with nxwing on this. Just get back together.
 
Everyone deserves second chancess. Just make sure you have a set limit like 3 strikes or something, it would help to be like that. Besides people miscommunicate a lot and it should be understood everyone isn't perfect.:)
 
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A joke like that isn't ever really funny. Makes it seem like you're more than willing to just throw it all away from some fictional action. I can see why she reacted that way.
 
I understand jokes hurt people feelings, but as a person who always is on the wrong end of the stick in a conversation, @MsMidnight Thought it was a joke that she would be okay with, she didn't expect her to have done what she did, and she knows that now, we all make mistakes and learn from it, we grow and become different for better or worst. I my self is constantly told that i am the problem of things why they always go wrong and that i upset people, but is not true, just maybe miscommunication goes wrong. Just talk to her, if you want her back, apologize and ask and hope she talks it out next time cause it can help the situation.:)
 
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I don't know, I mean if she means that much to you, I guess give it a shot. But on the other hand, it was just a joke, I don't think anyone should have gotten worked up over it, to the point of ending a whole relationship.

But anyways, good luck on whatever you decide and hope you are happy. :)
 
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