ok, i'll explain a little better what happened
1) I bought my R4i-SDHC V4.5 and it worked perfectly with my 3DS version 4.5
2) A new update for the 3DS comes out (5.0). I did not update the 3DS, instead i tried to update the R4i-SDHC
3) In the R4i-SDHC menu, i go to...