So long story short, putting my 3ds back together, i managed to bend a gold connector inside the connector that is behind the red circle for the speakers and sliders. So if anyone has had a similar problem of having to replace one of these connectors and where i can get a part for it i dont even know what to search online to find it, I see similar connectors on aliexpress but dont know how to search for what kind of specific connector that is. Any help would be much appreciated.